1 00:00:50,925 --> 00:00:52,927 [birds chirping] 2 00:01:34,302 --> 00:01:35,345 [water splashes] 3 00:02:21,015 --> 00:02:23,017 ♪ [soft, pensive] 4 00:02:24,394 --> 00:02:25,645 [person whoops nearby] 5 00:02:25,812 --> 00:02:27,480 [crowd chattering excitedly] 6 00:02:30,775 --> 00:02:32,527 - Okay. - Is it on? 7 00:02:32,694 --> 00:02:36,656 - [man 1] Wait... Yeah, yeah. - Okay. Uh... Okay. 8 00:02:36,823 --> 00:02:39,117 This is for our friend Hal Fields. 9 00:02:40,201 --> 00:02:41,202 Hal, we love you. 10 00:02:41,953 --> 00:02:45,957 - andJ' [mellow jazz piano] - [mutedly, men cheering and exclaiming] 11 00:02:47,083 --> 00:02:48,835 - [man 2] Did you get that? - [man 3] Shit. 12 00:02:49,836 --> 00:02:51,504 [laughs] 13 00:02:51,671 --> 00:02:54,507 ♪ Sometimes I wonder ♪ 14 00:02:54,674 --> 00:02:59,387 I Why I spend the lonely night I 15 00:03:00,597 --> 00:03:04,184 ♪ Dreaming of a song The melody... I 16 00:03:04,350 --> 00:03:07,854 Arthur, you're coming to live with me now, okay? 17 00:03:09,022 --> 00:03:10,231 This is my car. 18 00:03:10,398 --> 00:03:13,693 ♪ ...once again with you ♪ 19 00:03:13,860 --> 00:03:17,614 Jd When our love was new ♪ 20 00:03:17,780 --> 00:03:22,285 ♪ And each kiss an inspiration ♪ 21 00:03:24,245 --> 00:03:26,998 ♪ Oh, but that was long ago... ♪ 22 00:03:27,999 --> 00:03:31,252 This is the dining room, where people come and eat sometimes. 23 00:03:31,419 --> 00:03:36,674 ♪ ...the stardust of a song Beside... ♪ 24 00:03:36,841 --> 00:03:38,885 This is the living room. 25 00:03:39,802 --> 00:03:42,639 ♪ When stars are bright... ♪ 26 00:03:44,599 --> 00:03:45,892 That's the bathroom. 27 00:03:46,059 --> 00:03:51,397 ♪ The nightingale Tells his fairy tale... ♪ 28 00:03:51,564 --> 00:03:52,565 [exhales deeply] 29 00:03:52,732 --> 00:03:54,651 ♪ [singer whistling] 30 00:03:57,070 --> 00:03:58,696 [Oliver] This is 2003. 31 00:03:59,614 --> 00:04:01,449 This is what the sun looks like, 32 00:04:01,616 --> 00:04:04,077 and the stars, nature... 33 00:04:04,244 --> 00:04:05,286 This is the president. 34 00:04:05,870 --> 00:04:07,288 ♪ [soft, pensive] 35 00:04:07,455 --> 00:04:09,499 And this is the sun in 1955, 36 00:04:10,166 --> 00:04:11,584 and the stars 37 00:04:12,126 --> 00:04:13,253 and nature 38 00:04:14,254 --> 00:04:18,258 and cars and phones and movies and the president. 39 00:04:18,424 --> 00:04:20,301 These are what pets looked like. 40 00:04:21,344 --> 00:04:22,762 These are fireworks. 41 00:04:23,972 --> 00:04:25,807 This was smoking. 42 00:04:27,100 --> 00:04:29,769 This is what it looked like when people kissed, 43 00:04:31,396 --> 00:04:32,981 when they were happy, 44 00:04:33,648 --> 00:04:35,275 when they were sad. 45 00:04:36,401 --> 00:04:38,569 My parents got married in 1955. 46 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,824 He was a museum director, and she fixed up old houses. 47 00:04:42,991 --> 00:04:45,827 They had a child, and they stayed married for 44 years, 48 00:04:45,994 --> 00:04:47,412 until she died in their bed 49 00:04:48,162 --> 00:04:52,208 after four months of cancer and eating French toast for every meal 50 00:04:52,375 --> 00:04:54,544 and watching The Teletubbies every day 51 00:04:54,711 --> 00:04:56,963 and confusing white straws for her cigarettes 52 00:04:57,130 --> 00:04:59,590 and skipping back and forth through time inside her head. 53 00:05:00,550 --> 00:05:04,095 Six months later, my father told me he was gay. 54 00:05:04,262 --> 00:05:06,055 He had just turned 75. 55 00:05:06,222 --> 00:05:07,348 I'm gay. 56 00:05:07,515 --> 00:05:10,226 [Oliver] I remember him wearing a purple sweater when he told me, 57 00:05:11,936 --> 00:05:11,936 I'm gay. 58 00:05:11,936 --> 00:05:12,687 but actually, he wore a robe. 59 00:05:12,854 --> 00:05:14,230 I'm gay. 60 00:05:14,230 --> 00:05:16,691 I loved your mother, but... 61 00:05:16,691 --> 00:05:20,194 now I want to explore this side. 62 00:05:20,695 --> 00:05:23,573 I don't wanna be just theoretically gay. 63 00:05:23,740 --> 00:05:25,992 I wanna do something about it. 64 00:05:26,159 --> 00:05:27,785 I wanna do something about it. 65 00:05:27,952 --> 00:05:29,912 I wanna do something about it. 66 00:05:31,247 --> 00:05:33,082 [Oliver] He changed all his clothes. 67 00:05:33,249 --> 00:05:35,043 He got a boyfriend, Andy, 68 00:05:35,209 --> 00:05:37,128 a physical trainer who was also studying 69 00:05:37,295 --> 00:05:39,630 for his professional pyrotechnic license. 70 00:05:39,797 --> 00:05:43,343 Since I came out to my father, he never speaks to me. 71 00:05:43,509 --> 00:05:46,137 That's why I've been always attracted to older men. 72 00:05:46,304 --> 00:05:48,139 [both laughing] 73 00:05:48,306 --> 00:05:51,059 [Oliver] He found an out gay priest to guide him spiritually. 74 00:05:51,225 --> 00:05:53,102 He saw a therapist for the first time. 75 00:05:53,269 --> 00:05:54,812 He joined the Prime Timers, 76 00:05:54,979 --> 00:05:56,147 movie night, 77 00:05:56,314 --> 00:05:57,482 Los Angeles Pride. 78 00:05:58,816 --> 00:06:02,111 And then four years after he came out, he died in this room. 79 00:06:02,278 --> 00:06:03,404 ♪ [music fades out] 80 00:06:34,310 --> 00:06:38,481 Look, it's lonely out here, so you'd better learn how to talk with me. 81 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:48,699 I know. I know. 82 00:06:52,745 --> 00:06:54,747 ♪ [melancholy] 83 00:07:01,337 --> 00:07:03,339 [inaudible dialogue] 84 00:07:12,932 --> 00:07:13,850 [coughs] 85 00:07:14,016 --> 00:07:15,351 Calm, calm breaths. 86 00:07:15,351 --> 00:07:18,062 In... 87 00:07:18,062 --> 00:07:20,022 Out. [both exhale] 88 00:07:20,189 --> 00:07:23,359 Oliver. Please help me with all these ropes. 89 00:07:23,526 --> 00:07:26,654 Pop, Pop, stop, stop, stop. You're gonna hurt yourself. 90 00:07:26,821 --> 00:07:29,490 Mr. Fields, we're gonna have to secure your arms again, okay? 91 00:07:29,657 --> 00:07:31,576 [breathing heavily] 92 00:07:32,910 --> 00:07:34,120 You two married? 93 00:07:34,912 --> 00:07:36,164 [Oliver] No, Pop. 94 00:07:36,330 --> 00:07:37,999 Why not? She's great. 95 00:07:38,166 --> 00:07:42,295 Yeah, she's a great nurse in the hospital, but we don't really know her. 96 00:07:42,462 --> 00:07:43,921 You're very high on drugs. 97 00:07:44,088 --> 00:07:47,967 Ah, yes, you've always had some very good reasons, 98 00:07:48,759 --> 00:07:49,802 haven't you? 99 00:07:49,969 --> 00:07:52,346 No, Pop, I just don't wanna be like you and Mom. 100 00:07:52,513 --> 00:07:53,598 [Hal] Ah, well... 101 00:07:55,057 --> 00:07:55,892 Thank you. 102 00:07:56,058 --> 00:07:58,186 ♪ [cheerful ragtime piano] 103 00:08:16,621 --> 00:08:17,747 - Oliver? - Hmm? 104 00:08:17,914 --> 00:08:18,831 [mimics gunshot] 105 00:08:20,374 --> 00:08:22,251 Ollie, you can do better. 106 00:08:22,418 --> 00:08:23,503 [mimics gunshot] 107 00:08:26,214 --> 00:08:27,798 That's good. 108 00:08:28,758 --> 00:08:30,760 [dogs woofing in distance] 109 00:08:32,762 --> 00:08:34,180 ♪ [music fades out] 110 00:08:36,974 --> 00:08:40,019 Go and have your own experiences with your own people. 111 00:08:41,062 --> 00:08:42,438 I'll be right here. 112 00:08:45,358 --> 00:08:47,360 I'm a human. I'm not a dog. 113 00:08:48,861 --> 00:08:51,489 And you're a Jack Russell, and that's a breed. 114 00:08:53,199 --> 00:08:55,993 Your personality was created by this guy, John Russell, 115 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:59,872 who was a hunting enthusiast in the 1800s. 116 00:09:01,874 --> 00:09:05,211 And he bred your ancestors for their stamina and their courage for the hunt. 117 00:09:06,379 --> 00:09:09,382 You think you're you when you wanna chase the foxes, 118 00:09:10,758 --> 00:09:13,511 but other people planted that in you years ago. 119 00:09:14,470 --> 00:09:15,972 And now, somewhat arbitrarily, 120 00:09:16,138 --> 00:09:18,182 you're considered very cute by us humans. 121 00:09:19,767 --> 00:09:24,397 And we keep breeding you, not to chase foxes but to be cute. 122 00:09:24,564 --> 00:09:27,149 And we put you in television shows and movies... 123 00:09:28,025 --> 00:09:29,610 And you're chasing tennis balls 124 00:09:29,777 --> 00:09:32,363 because they're as close to a fox as you're gonna get. 125 00:09:32,947 --> 00:09:35,783 ♪ [whimsical ukulele] 126 00:09:43,499 --> 00:09:47,461 ♪ Though you're past your baby days Still you've got... ♪ 127 00:09:47,628 --> 00:09:48,629 - Hey. - Hey, Liz. 128 00:09:49,255 --> 00:09:53,134 ♪ You're as bashful every time When I'm with you ♪ 129 00:09:54,677 --> 00:09:57,346 ♪ Though you're fond of me, you say ♪ 130 00:09:57,513 --> 00:10:00,308 ♪ Still you keep me far away ♪ 131 00:10:00,474 --> 00:10:06,981 ♪ Oh, why can't we love Just like other sweethearts do? ♪ 132 00:10:07,148 --> 00:10:10,610 ♪ What have we got lips for? What have we got arms for? I 133 00:10:10,776 --> 00:10:13,362 ♪ Why do we have stars above? ♪ 134 00:10:13,529 --> 00:10:17,325 ♪ Oh, you know, I know Everything's made for love... ♪ 135 00:10:18,743 --> 00:10:21,287 [Oliver] Let's read this one. I found it in your books. 136 00:10:22,330 --> 00:10:23,831 Yeah, all right. 137 00:10:23,998 --> 00:10:26,375 Give me the flashlight. 138 00:10:27,209 --> 00:10:28,711 - [Oliver] Nice. - That's nice. 139 00:10:34,508 --> 00:10:36,636 [Oliver] Oh, Andy brought those for you. 140 00:10:36,802 --> 00:10:38,137 - [Hal] Oh, yeah? - Yeah. 141 00:10:38,304 --> 00:10:40,139 [Hal exhales] 142 00:10:41,307 --> 00:10:43,309 Who did that painting? 143 00:10:43,476 --> 00:10:46,145 Well, I don't know. It's just a painting on the wall. 144 00:10:47,855 --> 00:10:50,024 [Hal grunts] And these? 145 00:10:50,191 --> 00:10:52,276 [Oliver] They're just photos, Pop. 146 00:10:52,443 --> 00:10:55,071 But how do they relate to the exhibit? 147 00:10:55,863 --> 00:10:58,532 They're just personal photos. They're not art. 148 00:11:01,243 --> 00:11:03,913 Uh, and that's the water-sprinkler thing. 149 00:11:04,622 --> 00:11:07,208 - [Hal] Well, it's beautiful. - What is? 150 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:10,878 Putting the Japanese gardens there. It's just beautiful. 151 00:11:11,045 --> 00:11:12,254 [Andy] Hal? 152 00:11:13,381 --> 00:11:17,343 Andy! [chuckles] 153 00:11:24,350 --> 00:11:26,018 I brought something for you. 154 00:11:30,314 --> 00:11:33,901 We... made a recording for you. 155 00:11:34,068 --> 00:11:35,277 [Hal] Oh, God. 156 00:11:36,028 --> 00:11:39,573 - [Andy on tape] ...our friend Hal Fields. - [Hal] Oh, my God. 157 00:11:39,740 --> 00:11:40,908 - Eh? - [Hal] Yeah. 158 00:11:41,075 --> 00:11:43,994 [men cheering and exclaiming on tape] 159 00:11:44,161 --> 00:11:46,080 [fireworks crackling on tape] 160 00:11:46,247 --> 00:11:48,541 ♪ [faintly, whimsical ukulele] 161 00:11:48,708 --> 00:11:51,669 ♪ [singer vocalizing] 162 00:12:03,013 --> 00:12:05,808 [Oliver] Jesus, Liz. Another band that wants portraits. 163 00:12:05,975 --> 00:12:09,437 [Liz] Well, at least it pays the rent. 164 00:12:09,603 --> 00:12:13,107 [Oliver] You do something decent once, and that's all people ever want. 165 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:17,445 [man] Hi, Liz. 166 00:12:19,363 --> 00:12:20,573 [sighs] 167 00:12:22,700 --> 00:12:24,660 - [clears throat] Oliver? - Yeah? 168 00:12:25,619 --> 00:12:27,037 The pen is not your friend. 169 00:12:27,997 --> 00:12:30,708 The paper is not your friend. 170 00:12:32,001 --> 00:12:34,420 The party is your friend. We're your friends. 171 00:12:34,587 --> 00:12:37,047 Your friends are your friends. 172 00:12:38,716 --> 00:12:39,550 Okay? 173 00:12:39,717 --> 00:12:42,845 - [beatboxing] - [whispering] ♪ I've got the skills ♪ 174 00:12:43,012 --> 00:12:44,597 ♪ He's got the moves ♪ 175 00:12:46,682 --> 00:12:46,682 - ♪ You've got the skills ♪ - ♪ I've got the skills ♪ 176 00:12:46,682 --> 00:12:50,019 [whispering] and I've got the moves ♪ 177 00:12:50,019 --> 00:12:52,563 [Oliver] Arthur, you haven't been invited to this party. 178 00:12:52,730 --> 00:12:54,774 You're gonna stay and look after the house. 179 00:13:01,989 --> 00:13:03,991 [Arthur whining] 180 00:13:08,704 --> 00:13:10,706 [Arthur barking] 181 00:13:16,796 --> 00:13:18,047 [sighs] 182 00:13:18,756 --> 00:13:20,800 You remember when Oliver was funny 183 00:13:22,092 --> 00:13:26,514 and he'd actually say, like, talk in complete sentences? 184 00:13:26,680 --> 00:13:28,057 - Funny, funny... - Funny sentences. 185 00:13:28,224 --> 00:13:34,855 Hmm. I don't think-- Fun, but not funny, unless, like, serious is funny. 186 00:13:34,855 --> 00:13:34,855 - Lovable. Lovable. - Yeah, very lovable. 187 00:13:34,855 --> 00:13:37,358 Then he's fucking hilarious, but... 188 00:13:37,358 --> 00:13:38,484 You are very lovable. 189 00:13:38,651 --> 00:13:42,488 - [upbeat reggae music playing] - [crowd chattering] 190 00:13:42,655 --> 00:13:45,741 - [man] Hey, what's up? - Hey, everybody. Step aside. Step aside. 191 00:13:46,826 --> 00:13:48,077 Step aside. 192 00:13:48,244 --> 00:13:51,956 Really, really, really never again. Next year, over, not gonna happen. 193 00:14:02,550 --> 00:14:05,553 [woman] He is so cute. Does he do tricks? 194 00:14:05,719 --> 00:14:07,805 [Oliver] His name is Arthur. He doesn't do tricks. 195 00:14:07,972 --> 00:14:08,764 - No? - [Oliver] No. 196 00:14:08,931 --> 00:14:11,016 Arthur, sit. 197 00:14:11,183 --> 00:14:14,478 Oh, my God. Hi. Shake. 198 00:14:15,938 --> 00:14:18,023 Oh, my God. He's so cute. I want him. 199 00:14:18,190 --> 00:14:21,485 [in German accent] Does it make you feel powerful to order my dog around? 200 00:14:21,652 --> 00:14:23,028 It give you a sense of power? 201 00:14:23,195 --> 00:14:26,949 - Oh, you're being a therapist! Freud! - You're right. Thanks, yeah. Very good. 202 00:14:27,116 --> 00:14:28,492 [woman laughs] Bye, Arthur. 203 00:14:31,453 --> 00:14:33,914 But I didn't ask for this. Who would ask for this? 204 00:14:34,456 --> 00:14:37,918 This color, this nose, this cheek, this chin. 205 00:14:39,211 --> 00:14:40,546 You know, this is my life. 206 00:14:41,255 --> 00:14:43,382 This isn't a story. This isn't a joke. 207 00:14:44,508 --> 00:14:45,551 Yeah. 208 00:14:45,718 --> 00:14:47,386 [man] I'm so glad you came, doc. 209 00:14:47,553 --> 00:14:50,264 Just really good to get this stuff off my chest. 210 00:14:50,431 --> 00:14:53,225 I'm sorry. Our time is up, uh... 211 00:14:53,934 --> 00:14:55,060 for this week. 212 00:14:56,020 --> 00:14:57,813 Thank you for coming in. 213 00:15:05,654 --> 00:15:06,822 [in normal voice] Oh... 214 00:15:07,406 --> 00:15:10,659 I was just-- I was gonna take a break, actually. 215 00:15:10,826 --> 00:15:13,746 [upbeat garage-rock music playing] 216 00:15:14,830 --> 00:15:16,040 Okay. 217 00:15:17,207 --> 00:15:19,960 [in German accent] I guess we should start with your mother. 218 00:15:28,636 --> 00:15:30,054 Well, then, your father. 219 00:15:33,223 --> 00:15:35,309 I don't understand. You can't talk? 220 00:15:36,477 --> 00:15:39,313 Is it a mental problem? Do you need analysis? 221 00:15:46,528 --> 00:15:48,322 It's a physical problem. 222 00:16:05,923 --> 00:16:08,509 [in normal voice] I was doing such a good job of hiding it. 223 00:16:09,051 --> 00:16:10,177 How could you tell? 224 00:16:24,858 --> 00:16:27,486 Clearly, I'm gonna need a drink. You? 225 00:16:28,570 --> 00:16:31,073 You stay here? Yeah. 226 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:36,245 - It's not a natural color for a chicken. - No, mm-mm. 227 00:16:36,412 --> 00:16:39,665 And you see what happens when you free yourself from the cage, 228 00:16:39,832 --> 00:16:40,958 walk away from the factory? 229 00:16:41,125 --> 00:16:43,919 - You just have no real color. You're... - [Oliver] Hey, can you...? 230 00:16:44,086 --> 00:16:46,922 [Shauna] Oh, hey there. Uh-oh. One. Uh-oh. Two. 231 00:16:47,089 --> 00:16:48,841 - [Elliot] Two drinks. - What does that mean? 232 00:16:49,008 --> 00:16:51,093 - That's two people. - Two people. A girl and a guy? 233 00:16:51,260 --> 00:16:53,554 - Probably. - Yeah. Wow. Making moves. 234 00:16:55,973 --> 00:16:57,516 [phone ringing] 235 00:16:57,683 --> 00:16:58,559 [Oliver] Hello? 236 00:16:58,726 --> 00:17:00,060 - [Hal] Oliver? - Yeah. 237 00:17:00,227 --> 00:17:02,229 [chuckles] I'm not sorry I woke you. 238 00:17:02,396 --> 00:17:03,313 [both chuckle] 239 00:17:04,314 --> 00:17:06,650 I went to Akbar tonight. 240 00:17:06,817 --> 00:17:08,736 - [Oliver] You did? - [Hal] Yeah. 241 00:17:08,902 --> 00:17:12,239 Oh, they had some wonderfully loud music. 242 00:17:12,406 --> 00:17:16,869 - [mimicking driving beat] - [house music playing] 243 00:17:17,661 --> 00:17:19,705 [chuckles] What kind of music's that? 244 00:17:19,872 --> 00:17:21,290 Probably house music. 245 00:17:21,457 --> 00:17:24,501 - House music. Okay. - Yeah. 246 00:17:24,668 --> 00:17:27,296 House... House music. 247 00:17:27,463 --> 00:17:29,173 - Did you meet anyone? - Huh? 248 00:17:29,339 --> 00:17:31,800 - Did you meet anyone? - No. Young... 249 00:17:31,967 --> 00:17:34,803 Young gay men don't go for older gay men. 250 00:17:36,472 --> 00:17:37,681 You have it easy. 251 00:17:40,309 --> 00:17:43,312 [upbeat garage-rock music playing] 252 00:17:54,698 --> 00:17:56,158 [Oliver] Would you like to dance? 253 00:18:20,599 --> 00:18:23,602 ♪ [warm, pensive piano] 254 00:18:27,356 --> 00:18:30,984 [inaudible dialogue] 255 00:19:00,055 --> 00:19:01,056 Hello. 256 00:19:06,061 --> 00:19:07,354 Can I give you my number? 257 00:19:11,650 --> 00:19:12,651 Thanks. 258 00:19:20,242 --> 00:19:24,454 I feel bad dragging Arthur to the party. I should get home. 259 00:19:28,834 --> 00:19:30,419 It was really nice meeting you. 260 00:19:34,798 --> 00:19:37,426 "Au revoir." Yeah. 261 00:19:45,893 --> 00:19:47,895 [cell phone ringing] 262 00:19:56,904 --> 00:19:57,905 Hello? 263 00:19:59,865 --> 00:20:01,158 [line beeps] 264 00:20:03,327 --> 00:20:06,038 - Is that you? - [line beeps] 265 00:20:07,414 --> 00:20:09,082 One beep means "yes"? 266 00:20:09,249 --> 00:20:10,250 [line beeps] 267 00:20:12,502 --> 00:20:15,631 I've always wanted to have a phone call with someone who doesn't talk. 268 00:20:15,797 --> 00:20:17,716 [line beeps continuously] 269 00:20:19,259 --> 00:20:22,221 - Wanna do something? - [line beeps] 270 00:20:22,387 --> 00:20:24,056 - Now? - [line beeps] 271 00:20:25,057 --> 00:20:27,267 Okay, I'm parked just right up the street. 272 00:20:43,867 --> 00:20:46,787 Okay. You point, I'll drive. 273 00:20:47,996 --> 00:20:49,957 [engine starts] 274 00:20:59,007 --> 00:21:00,300 This way? 275 00:21:02,010 --> 00:21:04,638 [woman shrieks, then laughs] 276 00:21:04,805 --> 00:21:06,723 ♪ [warm jazz piano] 277 00:21:13,021 --> 00:21:15,023 [mouthing] 278 00:21:24,866 --> 00:21:25,993 Nice place. 279 00:21:43,677 --> 00:21:46,138 Oh, my mother. My mother died five years ago. 280 00:21:46,305 --> 00:21:48,557 - Oh, man. - Oh, you spoke. 281 00:21:51,268 --> 00:21:53,020 [whispering] I'm not supposed to. 282 00:21:56,273 --> 00:21:59,860 My father died two months ago, um, almost three. 283 00:22:02,738 --> 00:22:03,822 He, uh... 284 00:22:04,448 --> 00:22:05,490 He was gay. 285 00:22:08,118 --> 00:22:10,620 He was gay the whole time they were married. 286 00:22:11,496 --> 00:22:13,874 He came out after my mother died, 287 00:22:15,459 --> 00:22:16,668 and he was 75 years old. 288 00:22:20,339 --> 00:22:21,340 Sorry. 289 00:22:51,286 --> 00:22:53,288 [chuckling] 290 00:22:54,915 --> 00:22:56,208 [laughs] 291 00:23:18,730 --> 00:23:20,690 [whispering] Can we just sleep? 292 00:23:23,568 --> 00:23:25,404 [softly] Sure. Sure. 293 00:23:40,043 --> 00:23:40,961 Oh. 294 00:23:48,176 --> 00:23:49,177 Oliver. 295 00:23:56,643 --> 00:23:58,603 How long are you here when you get back? 296 00:24:00,897 --> 00:24:01,898 A year? 297 00:24:03,900 --> 00:24:04,985 A month? 298 00:24:07,988 --> 00:24:09,489 Right. And then? 299 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,534 You're filming here. Acting. 300 00:24:13,618 --> 00:24:14,661 And after? 301 00:24:17,372 --> 00:24:19,332 Just somewhere else? Where? 302 00:24:35,182 --> 00:24:36,266 Yes. 303 00:24:38,310 --> 00:24:40,312 ♪ [warm, tinkling jazz piano] 304 00:25:15,972 --> 00:25:17,974 ♪ [music continues] 305 00:25:31,988 --> 00:25:35,075 Hello, house. Hello, Oliver. 306 00:25:38,370 --> 00:25:40,997 Jesus, Pop, you get so much mail. 307 00:25:48,046 --> 00:25:50,590 [doctor] Hal, it's remarkable how well you've recovered 308 00:25:50,757 --> 00:25:52,217 from being on the ventilator. 309 00:25:52,384 --> 00:25:53,760 [chuckles] 310 00:25:54,970 --> 00:25:55,887 But? 311 00:25:58,014 --> 00:26:01,101 The bronchoscopy revealed a mass 312 00:26:01,268 --> 00:26:04,771 about the size of a quarter located in your lower right lung. 313 00:26:05,730 --> 00:26:08,692 I'm afraid the biopsy showed it's cancerous. 314 00:26:11,861 --> 00:26:13,238 Uh-huh. I see. 315 00:26:14,197 --> 00:26:16,324 It appears to have spread 316 00:26:16,491 --> 00:26:19,452 to the large hilar lymph nodes in your chest and liver. 317 00:26:20,078 --> 00:26:22,747 With the already weakened state of your heart and lungs, 318 00:26:22,914 --> 00:26:26,084 surgery isn't possible, given its location. 319 00:26:28,044 --> 00:26:32,382 We can start radiation treatments and see if you're strong enough for chemo. 320 00:26:33,508 --> 00:26:35,218 You will be able to go home. 321 00:26:43,393 --> 00:26:44,853 Do you have any questions? 322 00:26:47,814 --> 00:26:48,815 No. 323 00:26:50,734 --> 00:26:51,735 Thank you. 324 00:26:55,405 --> 00:26:56,406 I'm sorry. 325 00:26:57,198 --> 00:26:59,451 Well, let's not rush out and tell everyone. 326 00:27:01,202 --> 00:27:02,203 Andy? 327 00:27:03,622 --> 00:27:05,373 No need to get him up a tree. 328 00:27:13,214 --> 00:27:15,550 ♪ [melancholy] 329 00:27:17,010 --> 00:27:20,055 Can you read me something? 330 00:27:20,055 --> 00:27:22,474 [Oliver] "The Brazilian ballet star is already known 331 00:27:22,641 --> 00:27:24,726 not only as a skilled partner 332 00:27:24,893 --> 00:27:28,146 but also as a gifted and versatile dancer 333 00:27:28,313 --> 00:27:32,525 who adeptly fields roles ranging from the strictly classical..." 334 00:27:32,692 --> 00:27:34,611 ♪ [music continues] 335 00:27:59,344 --> 00:28:01,846 - [Oliver] He sleeps on your bed. - [Hal] But is he eating? 336 00:28:02,013 --> 00:28:04,557 - Yeah. Yeah, he's eating. - Oh, God, I worry so much-- 337 00:28:04,724 --> 00:28:06,059 Oh. Here we are. 338 00:28:07,602 --> 00:28:09,729 - What have you got in there? - A slug. 339 00:28:09,896 --> 00:28:11,898 Andy, you can't bring that kind of thing. 340 00:28:12,065 --> 00:28:14,567 - You cannot. - Oh, I can. Look. [gurgles] 341 00:28:14,734 --> 00:28:15,694 Fuck you. 342 00:28:17,445 --> 00:28:19,572 It's time for inspection. 343 00:28:19,572 --> 00:28:22,367 - Hello, Mr. Fields. - Hello. 344 00:28:22,367 --> 00:28:24,452 I'm Andy, Hal's boyfriend. 345 00:28:26,579 --> 00:28:28,289 I'm Sophia. 346 00:28:28,289 --> 00:28:31,876 You know, I have the right to be here as much as anyone else. 347 00:28:32,043 --> 00:28:34,421 [Hal chuckles] Go take a walk. Calm yourself. 348 00:28:39,759 --> 00:28:41,177 [Oliver] What was all that? 349 00:28:42,721 --> 00:28:44,806 Oh, Andy hasn't had it easy too. 350 00:28:45,682 --> 00:28:46,850 Be nice to him. 351 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:51,688 [Andy] Excuse me. 352 00:28:57,527 --> 00:28:58,862 Andy, um, 353 00:29:00,029 --> 00:29:01,656 where did you get these? 354 00:29:02,490 --> 00:29:06,494 - JJ [pensive horn] - [mutedly, crowd chattering] 355 00:29:08,997 --> 00:29:11,082 Guys, guys, this is to us. 356 00:29:11,791 --> 00:29:13,251 - Cheers. - To us. 357 00:29:13,418 --> 00:29:14,753 [all] Cheers. 358 00:29:17,547 --> 00:29:20,467 Drinking is not allowed in the room. 359 00:29:20,633 --> 00:29:22,552 [visitors groan] 360 00:29:24,179 --> 00:29:25,180 Oh, it's not? 361 00:29:27,390 --> 00:29:29,267 - Sorry. - [visitors grouse] 362 00:29:29,434 --> 00:29:31,269 No, no, no. 363 00:29:32,020 --> 00:29:33,313 She's a wonderful nurse. 364 00:29:34,063 --> 00:29:36,608 - Here's to healthcare. - [all laugh] 365 00:29:36,775 --> 00:29:38,026 [man] To healthcare! 366 00:29:38,818 --> 00:29:41,446 [Oliver] What did you do with my father? He was so polite. 367 00:29:41,613 --> 00:29:44,073 Well, I invited him, but he never returns my calls. 368 00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:45,658 [all laugh] 369 00:29:47,076 --> 00:29:49,245 - Two, four, six, eight. - [sighs] 370 00:29:49,412 --> 00:29:51,456 That's it? That's all you're gonna tell me? 371 00:29:51,623 --> 00:29:53,917 I'm gonna meet her at her hotel again, okay? 372 00:29:54,626 --> 00:29:55,752 You happy? 373 00:29:55,919 --> 00:29:58,046 Yeah, I'm very happy. 374 00:29:58,213 --> 00:29:59,464 Are you happy? 375 00:30:00,465 --> 00:30:01,633 [Oliver] There's eight. 376 00:30:02,300 --> 00:30:05,261 We haven't actually had a conversation yet, so, you know... 377 00:30:07,722 --> 00:30:09,682 You're thinking about her all the time. 378 00:30:10,725 --> 00:30:14,145 - And you know that because? - Because you're not talking about it. 379 00:30:15,104 --> 00:30:16,189 I know you. 380 00:30:18,316 --> 00:30:19,442 It's true. 381 00:30:21,069 --> 00:30:24,280 It's embarrassing. I'm 38, falling for a girl again. 382 00:30:26,991 --> 00:30:30,411 It's like I lost the instructions or I never had them. 383 00:30:34,624 --> 00:30:35,750 Where's Pop? 384 00:30:36,668 --> 00:30:37,919 At the museum. 385 00:30:39,796 --> 00:30:41,631 Is something wrong with you guys? 386 00:30:46,135 --> 00:30:48,429 - What are you, in the FBI? - No. 387 00:30:51,474 --> 00:30:53,935 - CIA? - No. 388 00:30:54,102 --> 00:30:55,854 - KGB? - No. 389 00:30:58,523 --> 00:31:01,401 - SLA? PTA? - No. 390 00:31:01,568 --> 00:31:02,485 BMW? 391 00:31:08,491 --> 00:31:10,451 There's nothing wrong with me and Pop. 392 00:31:18,626 --> 00:31:21,754 When you feel bad, you go into your room 393 00:31:21,921 --> 00:31:24,507 and scream as loud as you can for a minute or two, 394 00:31:24,674 --> 00:31:25,884 and then it's out of you. 395 00:31:26,676 --> 00:31:28,219 It's called catharsis. 396 00:31:42,650 --> 00:31:44,152 I don't feel like screaming. 397 00:31:46,946 --> 00:31:48,114 You will. 398 00:31:48,281 --> 00:31:51,200 ♪ [circus-like] 399 00:32:10,762 --> 00:32:12,347 [Oliver] What the fuck is that? 400 00:32:13,014 --> 00:32:15,016 "L-E-It." Elliot. 401 00:32:15,934 --> 00:32:18,728 - Well, that's ridiculous. - I know. 402 00:32:19,479 --> 00:32:20,939 You're not very supportive. 403 00:32:21,105 --> 00:32:22,690 Well, it's just like copying something 404 00:32:22,857 --> 00:32:24,943 that someone, like, did 30 years ago in the Bronx. 405 00:32:25,109 --> 00:32:28,196 Well, yeah, I'm part of a tradition of civil disobedience. 406 00:32:28,363 --> 00:32:29,781 Something bigger than myself. 407 00:32:31,199 --> 00:32:32,408 ♪ [music continues] 408 00:32:32,575 --> 00:32:35,745 - How's it work? - You have to shake it. Shake it. 409 00:32:58,101 --> 00:32:59,268 What was that? 410 00:32:59,435 --> 00:33:02,647 Historical consciousness. Something bigger than myself. 411 00:33:04,983 --> 00:33:06,401 Let's do it again. 412 00:33:06,567 --> 00:33:08,528 [Elliot] Okay, but when you see her, 413 00:33:08,695 --> 00:33:12,031 don't tell her that you painted historical consciousness on the wall. 414 00:33:16,119 --> 00:33:18,162 [Arthur barking] 415 00:33:18,329 --> 00:33:20,248 [Arthur whining] 416 00:33:27,547 --> 00:33:28,715 [woman] He's sweet. 417 00:33:30,133 --> 00:33:31,509 He misses your dad. 418 00:33:41,394 --> 00:33:42,812 [woman chuckles] 419 00:34:00,621 --> 00:34:04,542 Maybe we could, um... We could just talk for a second. 420 00:34:06,169 --> 00:34:07,253 Right. 421 00:34:17,472 --> 00:34:20,099 Well, my name is Anna. 422 00:34:23,686 --> 00:34:27,065 You're worried you can't trust me because you don't know who I am. 423 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:32,236 I get it. That makes sense to me. 424 00:34:41,537 --> 00:34:43,539 ♪ [warm, tinkling jazz piano] 425 00:34:56,094 --> 00:34:57,595 [groans] 426 00:35:12,735 --> 00:35:15,738 ♪ [music distorting] 427 00:35:16,572 --> 00:35:18,157 Oliver, stop it. 428 00:35:18,324 --> 00:35:20,243 [music continues distorting] 429 00:35:21,828 --> 00:35:23,538 This music's old. 430 00:35:26,124 --> 00:35:27,125 It's Black. 431 00:35:28,626 --> 00:35:31,712 Black music's the deepest 'cause they suffered the most. 432 00:35:33,047 --> 00:35:34,382 Them and the Jews. 433 00:35:37,176 --> 00:35:38,553 In my next life, 434 00:35:40,429 --> 00:35:42,765 I'm gonna marry a good hot-blooded Jew. 435 00:35:44,642 --> 00:35:46,144 Someone full of emotion. 436 00:35:50,189 --> 00:35:51,482 I'm Jewish, right? 437 00:35:51,482 --> 00:35:54,402 You're a quarter. I'm a half. 438 00:35:56,112 --> 00:35:57,363 Your father's none. 439 00:35:57,947 --> 00:35:59,490 He has the least emotions. 440 00:36:02,201 --> 00:36:05,913 You'll have more emotions than him, but I'll have the most emotions. 441 00:36:11,419 --> 00:36:14,547 You get to play chauffeur, but only to the bottom of the hill. 442 00:36:14,547 --> 00:36:16,549 You're turning into a wonderful driver. 443 00:36:18,968 --> 00:36:20,970 ♪ [upbeat jazz] 444 00:36:36,861 --> 00:36:39,280 Excuse me, Mrs. Fields? Uh... 445 00:36:39,989 --> 00:36:42,200 What, you're not allowed to interact with the art? 446 00:36:42,366 --> 00:36:43,951 Well, it's just that... 447 00:36:44,994 --> 00:36:48,164 You too? You like being a good citizen? 448 00:36:48,331 --> 00:36:49,248 No. 449 00:36:56,839 --> 00:36:58,799 Can you toss me my camisole? 450 00:37:04,805 --> 00:37:06,265 No, my camisole. 451 00:37:08,809 --> 00:37:09,894 [Anna chuckles] 452 00:37:13,022 --> 00:37:15,233 - [Anna laughs] - Camisole? 453 00:37:16,901 --> 00:37:18,861 You don't know what a camisole is? 454 00:37:19,487 --> 00:37:20,655 I was, um... 455 00:37:21,447 --> 00:37:24,033 I was brought up by these animals, 456 00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:26,661 and they didn't like questions. 457 00:37:26,827 --> 00:37:29,580 They were very frowned upon. So I had to guess. 458 00:37:31,457 --> 00:37:33,125 You can ask me anything. 459 00:37:36,003 --> 00:37:37,046 Anything? 460 00:37:45,554 --> 00:37:46,931 What's that there? 461 00:37:47,098 --> 00:37:48,766 - [Anna] That's a tree. - Yeah. 462 00:37:48,933 --> 00:37:50,643 - And cars. - Uh-huh. 463 00:37:51,602 --> 00:37:54,105 - Another building like this one. - Right. 464 00:37:54,272 --> 00:37:56,399 People in the building like us. 465 00:37:56,565 --> 00:37:59,402 Half of them think things will never work out. 466 00:38:00,528 --> 00:38:03,656 The other half believe in magic. 467 00:38:04,615 --> 00:38:06,325 It's like a war between them. 468 00:38:11,330 --> 00:38:13,291 How do you know so much about people? 469 00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:14,875 Oh... 470 00:38:17,253 --> 00:38:21,465 Well, you have to learn how to read their faces. 471 00:38:24,051 --> 00:38:27,054 Um... for example... 472 00:38:30,516 --> 00:38:32,643 Here's mad. 473 00:38:34,979 --> 00:38:35,896 Happy. 474 00:38:37,648 --> 00:38:38,649 Um... 475 00:38:39,567 --> 00:38:41,193 Sometimes it's just nothing. 476 00:38:44,613 --> 00:38:46,532 - Oh, yeah? - This is nothing. 477 00:38:48,743 --> 00:38:53,539 And they are good at looking one way 478 00:38:53,539 --> 00:38:56,208 and being another way. 479 00:38:56,208 --> 00:38:58,836 ♪ [warm jazz piano] 480 00:39:00,046 --> 00:39:01,839 [Anna] You don't know me. I like that. 481 00:39:02,006 --> 00:39:04,008 - [Oliver] No, that's not true. - Oh, yeah? 482 00:39:04,175 --> 00:39:07,136 [Oliver] Yeah, you have blond hair that goes down to about here. 483 00:39:07,303 --> 00:39:09,472 You smoke in nonsmoking rooms. You bite sometimes. 484 00:39:09,638 --> 00:39:10,973 Okay, open your eyes. 485 00:39:11,140 --> 00:39:13,225 [vehicles honking] 486 00:39:14,894 --> 00:39:17,980 [Anna] Oh, yeah? You drive on the sidewalk. 487 00:39:18,147 --> 00:39:19,899 You were raised by animals. 488 00:39:20,691 --> 00:39:24,362 Sometimes you look very alone, like you just got here. 489 00:39:25,321 --> 00:39:27,531 [Oliver] Yeah, you see, you don't know me at all. 490 00:39:27,698 --> 00:39:29,617 [geese squawking] 491 00:39:38,667 --> 00:39:42,296 Someone flashy walks into your life, and you're just gonna fall for it. 492 00:39:46,342 --> 00:39:49,970 No. It doesn't work like that. There are other steps. It's complicated. 493 00:39:53,974 --> 00:39:56,435 Yeah. Me too. 494 00:39:57,353 --> 00:39:59,230 [Hal] What happened with Michelle? 495 00:40:01,982 --> 00:40:04,527 - I don't know. You know... - She seemed great. 496 00:40:05,319 --> 00:40:06,529 She was great. 497 00:40:07,488 --> 00:40:09,990 Well, maybe you should take out a personal ad, you know, 498 00:40:10,157 --> 00:40:11,951 where you can explain your situation. 499 00:40:12,118 --> 00:40:14,662 - My situation? - Yeah. 500 00:40:14,829 --> 00:40:18,582 I mean, you wanna be in a relationship, and you can't stay in one. 501 00:40:19,667 --> 00:40:22,420 That's your fatherly advice, personal ads? 502 00:40:22,586 --> 00:40:24,088 Well... 503 00:40:25,047 --> 00:40:26,674 A lot of people use them. 504 00:40:27,675 --> 00:40:29,009 [clears throat] I did. 505 00:40:29,802 --> 00:40:30,928 What? 506 00:40:31,095 --> 00:40:34,932 If Andy wasn't going to be monogamous, why should I be? 507 00:40:35,099 --> 00:40:36,809 Jesus, Pop. 508 00:40:36,976 --> 00:40:38,978 - Jesus yourself. - Oh, yeah? 509 00:40:39,145 --> 00:40:40,020 Ah. 510 00:40:41,647 --> 00:40:42,940 [guests cheering] 511 00:40:43,107 --> 00:40:45,317 - [man 1] You look great, Hal. - [man 2] So handsome. 512 00:40:45,484 --> 00:40:47,111 Hello, house. 513 00:40:47,278 --> 00:40:48,821 [in deep voice] Hello, Hal. 514 00:40:48,988 --> 00:40:50,865 [coos] 515 00:40:51,031 --> 00:40:53,367 - [in high-pitched voice] Hello, Hal. - [all laugh] 516 00:41:09,425 --> 00:41:13,554 - Oh, God, what have you got this time? - It's a green caterpillar. 517 00:41:13,721 --> 00:41:15,723 No, no, no, you don't have a green caterpillar. 518 00:41:15,890 --> 00:41:16,932 Oh, yeah, I do. 519 00:41:17,099 --> 00:41:20,394 Oh, my God. Gross! Oh, Jesus. 520 00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:26,108 Hey, you going? 521 00:41:26,275 --> 00:41:28,360 [Andy] Yeah. Michael's in town. 522 00:41:28,527 --> 00:41:29,528 Oh. 523 00:41:30,321 --> 00:41:31,363 Right. 524 00:41:38,204 --> 00:41:39,830 I thought he was your boyfriend. 525 00:41:39,997 --> 00:41:43,125 [scoffs] At least I'm the number one boyfriend. 526 00:41:43,792 --> 00:41:45,169 - [groans] - Pop. 527 00:41:46,253 --> 00:41:49,089 - [Hal] My stomach. - All right, come on. 528 00:41:50,799 --> 00:41:52,676 - Come on. - Well, let's say... 529 00:41:52,843 --> 00:41:53,886 Arthur, down. 530 00:41:54,553 --> 00:41:57,223 Let's say, since you were little, 531 00:41:57,973 --> 00:42:03,354 and you always dreamed of someday getting a lion? 532 00:42:04,605 --> 00:42:08,776 And you wait and you wait and you wait, and the lion doesn't come? 533 00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:13,489 Then along comes a giraffe. 534 00:42:15,199 --> 00:42:19,995 You can be alone or you can be with the giraffe. 535 00:42:24,250 --> 00:42:25,626 I'd wait for the lion. 536 00:42:26,627 --> 00:42:28,337 That's why I worry about you. 537 00:42:33,634 --> 00:42:34,760 Here. 538 00:42:35,844 --> 00:42:39,890 ♪ [pensive horn] 539 00:43:13,257 --> 00:43:17,052 [chuckles] You see, you'd like me to be with someone like me. 540 00:43:17,219 --> 00:43:19,722 I like Andy because he isn't like me. 541 00:43:21,849 --> 00:43:23,100 He's fun. 542 00:43:28,230 --> 00:43:29,315 [Anna shouts] 543 00:43:29,481 --> 00:43:31,400 [both laughing] 544 00:43:37,323 --> 00:43:38,866 Hey, what'd you get? 545 00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:44,455 Liv Ullmann? [chuckles] Very serious. 546 00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:50,753 - And I found this crazy book. - [chuckles] 547 00:43:50,919 --> 00:43:53,255 That's kind of a classic American thing. 548 00:43:53,422 --> 00:43:55,507 [both laugh] 549 00:43:56,925 --> 00:44:00,554 Maybe we can figure out some classic American things to do. 550 00:44:00,721 --> 00:44:01,639 Yeah. 551 00:44:03,349 --> 00:44:05,059 - Like 75. - Mm-hm. 552 00:44:06,435 --> 00:44:10,522 - Mm. Oh. - Or 75 all the way through... 553 00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:13,025 Through 80. 554 00:44:13,859 --> 00:44:16,612 "Louise Brooks, star of silent screen, 555 00:44:16,779 --> 00:44:19,323 effectively banned from Hollywood in the early '30s, 556 00:44:19,490 --> 00:44:22,284 ended up working as a salesgirl at Saks Fifth Avenue." 557 00:44:22,451 --> 00:44:25,162 - [Anna] Oh, I love her. - And Veronica Lake. 558 00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:28,040 Was a pinup model and a film star. 559 00:44:28,791 --> 00:44:31,627 Success was short-lived, a series of broken marriages... 560 00:44:31,794 --> 00:44:34,254 She struggled with mental illness and alcoholism. 561 00:44:36,215 --> 00:44:38,801 She died of hepatitis at the age of 53. 562 00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:45,265 All these actors' stories end sad. I can tell you that already. 563 00:44:45,891 --> 00:44:47,226 That's not a good life. 564 00:44:51,313 --> 00:44:54,233 ♪ [warm, pensive piano] 565 00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:57,945 So, now I want real Mexican food. 566 00:44:59,238 --> 00:45:01,907 And I wanna try page... 567 00:45:03,909 --> 00:45:05,035 46. 568 00:45:06,954 --> 00:45:08,956 ♪ [music continues] 569 00:45:10,332 --> 00:45:12,251 - [Anna] No. - Yeah. 570 00:45:12,418 --> 00:45:14,211 - Really? - It's really good. 571 00:45:22,386 --> 00:45:23,387 What do you think? 572 00:45:27,599 --> 00:45:28,600 It's so good. 573 00:45:28,767 --> 00:45:29,601 - It's good. - Mm. 574 00:45:29,768 --> 00:45:31,687 - Oh. I wasn't sure you'd like it. - Why? 575 00:45:31,854 --> 00:45:34,314 You're an actress and staying in that fancy hotel. 576 00:45:37,735 --> 00:45:39,194 I like this place. 577 00:45:42,364 --> 00:45:43,991 I used to love hotels. 578 00:45:45,784 --> 00:45:50,289 But now I'm always in a new apartment or in another hotel somewhere. 579 00:45:51,373 --> 00:45:55,252 How do you keep hold of friends? Or boyfriends? 580 00:45:59,465 --> 00:46:03,093 Makes it very easy to end up alone. 581 00:46:06,054 --> 00:46:07,222 To leave people. 582 00:46:12,936 --> 00:46:16,273 You can stay in the same place and still find ways to leave people. 583 00:46:26,116 --> 00:46:27,659 [Anna] You are like that? 584 00:46:28,911 --> 00:46:29,912 It's what you do? 585 00:46:39,797 --> 00:46:42,883 Wow, so we are the same? 586 00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:45,928 Yeah, I guess so. 587 00:46:50,599 --> 00:46:54,603 [upbeat jazz music playing from other room] 588 00:47:09,535 --> 00:47:11,578 Oh. Oh, did I wake you? 589 00:47:12,454 --> 00:47:14,331 Yeah. Thank you, Maria. 590 00:47:14,498 --> 00:47:15,958 Now that you're here, 591 00:47:16,124 --> 00:47:20,295 - would you please put those up there? - What are you...? Pop. What...? 592 00:47:20,462 --> 00:47:23,924 - [Hal] I'm reorganizing. - Prednisone makes you crazy. 593 00:47:24,091 --> 00:47:27,010 I'm just not sleepy. I feel great. 594 00:47:31,932 --> 00:47:33,642 Pop, you should rest. 595 00:47:33,809 --> 00:47:37,062 Soon as I finish these papers. Right, papers? 596 00:47:37,771 --> 00:47:42,359 [in deep voice] Right, Hal. As soon as you're done, you can rest. 597 00:47:53,996 --> 00:47:57,332 - [Anna chuckles] What? - Nothing. You're pretty. 598 00:47:58,709 --> 00:47:59,793 [Anna] No. 599 00:48:00,502 --> 00:48:01,503 Yeah. 600 00:48:02,796 --> 00:48:04,548 Jewish girls are not pretty. 601 00:48:04,715 --> 00:48:07,801 They can be interesting or cute, but not pretty. 602 00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:11,930 - You're kidding, right? - That's what my mom told me. 603 00:48:15,100 --> 00:48:18,437 - She did not. - [laughs] No, you're right. 604 00:48:18,604 --> 00:48:20,731 This girl at school told me that, 605 00:48:20,898 --> 00:48:25,235 and I went home, and my mom said, "Anna, who told you that?" 606 00:48:25,402 --> 00:48:29,406 [Oliver] This is what it looks like when Anna tells me about being Jewish in 2003. 607 00:48:30,115 --> 00:48:32,326 And when I tell her my mother was Jewish. 608 00:48:32,492 --> 00:48:36,455 And that my father turned in his gay badge when my mother turned in her Jewish badge, 609 00:48:36,622 --> 00:48:38,624 and they got married in 1955. 610 00:48:40,125 --> 00:48:42,628 My mother didn't know she was Jewish until she was 13. 611 00:48:42,794 --> 00:48:43,962 It was 1938. 612 00:48:44,671 --> 00:48:46,340 This is what people looked like, 613 00:48:47,507 --> 00:48:49,593 and lions and giraffes. 614 00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:51,553 This man was the Man of the Year. 615 00:48:52,262 --> 00:48:55,307 Her father tried to hide that they were Jewish. 616 00:48:55,474 --> 00:48:57,351 This is the swim team that asked her to leave 617 00:48:57,517 --> 00:48:59,269 once they discovered that she was Jewish. 618 00:48:59,811 --> 00:49:01,980 This is what pretty looked like in 1938. 619 00:49:03,649 --> 00:49:06,193 My father realized he was gay when he was 13. 620 00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:07,569 It was 1938. 621 00:49:08,487 --> 00:49:10,238 This is what pretty looked like. 622 00:49:11,281 --> 00:49:13,784 This is the high school where they first met. 623 00:49:13,951 --> 00:49:16,203 This is the war they both went to. 624 00:49:16,370 --> 00:49:18,872 And this man was popular when they met again. 625 00:49:19,039 --> 00:49:22,668 This is the only place my father could hide and have sex in the '50s. 626 00:49:22,834 --> 00:49:25,379 My father said if you got caught by the Vice Squad, 627 00:49:25,545 --> 00:49:27,089 you could lose everything. 628 00:49:27,255 --> 00:49:28,090 This is everything. 629 00:49:30,759 --> 00:49:32,761 My father lay down on a couch like this 630 00:49:32,928 --> 00:49:35,847 and told the psychiatrist all his problems in 1955. 631 00:49:36,431 --> 00:49:39,893 The doctor told him that homosexuality was a mental illness 632 00:49:40,060 --> 00:49:41,645 but it could be cured. 633 00:49:41,812 --> 00:49:43,313 Not everyone got cured. 634 00:49:44,147 --> 00:49:46,608 This is where my parents lived in 1955. 635 00:49:46,775 --> 00:49:50,445 And this is the home where the first gay-rights group were secretly meeting. 636 00:49:50,612 --> 00:49:53,198 While they were reciting their vows here in this church, 637 00:49:53,365 --> 00:49:56,034 Allen Ginsberg was writing his famous poem, 638 00:49:56,201 --> 00:49:57,869 Howl, blocks away in this room. 639 00:49:58,036 --> 00:50:01,415 [Ginsberg] ...who let themselves be fucked in the ass by saintly motorcyclists, 640 00:50:01,581 --> 00:50:03,166 and screamed with joy, 641 00:50:04,126 --> 00:50:06,878 who blew and were blown by those human seraphim, 642 00:50:07,045 --> 00:50:11,049 the sailors, caresses of Atlantic and Caribbean love... 643 00:50:11,216 --> 00:50:13,135 ♪ [jazz piano] 644 00:50:20,976 --> 00:50:23,895 [inaudible dialogue] 645 00:50:55,010 --> 00:50:58,138 Just do the portrait of them. It's an album cover, right? 646 00:50:59,556 --> 00:51:01,767 - That's all they want. Yeah? - Yeah. 647 00:51:03,727 --> 00:51:04,853 Right. 648 00:51:10,859 --> 00:51:12,819 [Hal cooing] 649 00:51:12,986 --> 00:51:14,571 - [Oliver] Here, Pop. - Oh, God. 650 00:51:14,738 --> 00:51:16,031 I know, I know. Come on. 651 00:51:16,907 --> 00:51:18,825 [Hal sighs] 652 00:51:25,957 --> 00:51:29,544 Hey, no, no, no. That's Gay Pride Day stuff. 653 00:51:29,711 --> 00:51:31,963 - Just leave those. - All right. 654 00:51:34,716 --> 00:51:38,929 And that's Gay Book Club. You'd better leave those too. 655 00:51:40,138 --> 00:51:42,265 But what about the chair? Is the chair gay? 656 00:51:42,432 --> 00:51:45,185 The chair is not gay. Obviously. 657 00:51:46,603 --> 00:51:48,647 [grunts, then sighs] 658 00:51:48,814 --> 00:51:50,857 Pop, Pop, the cord won't go so far. 659 00:51:51,024 --> 00:51:52,567 Ah, God, to hell with it. 660 00:51:54,861 --> 00:51:58,406 - [clears throat] Oh, what's that? - Now that you're out of the hospital, 661 00:51:58,573 --> 00:52:00,659 you'll have to exercise, get you back into shape. 662 00:52:00,826 --> 00:52:03,453 - [Hal] Oh, that's a great idea. - Okay, let's try it. 663 00:52:03,620 --> 00:52:05,330 - I'll show you how. - [Hal] Yeah, later on. 664 00:52:05,497 --> 00:52:07,165 I'm gonna make myself some tea. 665 00:52:07,332 --> 00:52:09,918 Okay. I'll go clean it up. It's a little bleh. 666 00:52:15,173 --> 00:52:17,843 Your mother's vase needs some flowers. 667 00:52:19,302 --> 00:52:22,222 [Oliver] You need to tell Andy that you're not well. 668 00:52:23,098 --> 00:52:25,892 Pop, you're just out of the hospital. You should take it easy. 669 00:52:26,059 --> 00:52:27,769 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 670 00:52:28,520 --> 00:52:30,355 [Hal] You'll tell him, won't you? 671 00:52:31,857 --> 00:52:32,941 Me? 672 00:52:34,609 --> 00:52:35,610 Please. 673 00:52:46,121 --> 00:52:47,122 Hey. 674 00:52:58,592 --> 00:53:00,969 You know I tried to have sex with women? 675 00:53:02,637 --> 00:53:03,763 - Yeah? - Yeah. 676 00:53:04,431 --> 00:53:07,517 I just wanted you to know, I tried. It just... It didn't work. 677 00:53:10,645 --> 00:53:12,772 Hey, I don't have a problem with gay guys. 678 00:53:12,939 --> 00:53:14,482 Have you had sex with a man? 679 00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:16,318 No. 680 00:53:18,570 --> 00:53:21,865 I heard that if a man hasn't had sex with another man, 681 00:53:22,032 --> 00:53:24,117 he's always afraid of gay men. 682 00:53:24,284 --> 00:53:25,619 You know? They're a threat. 683 00:53:28,163 --> 00:53:29,664 I don't know, Andy. 684 00:53:29,831 --> 00:53:32,334 I didn't want you to feel threatened. 685 00:53:33,210 --> 00:53:35,712 I don't wanna have sex with you. 686 00:53:39,507 --> 00:53:40,592 What I do, 687 00:53:41,676 --> 00:53:44,596 most people wouldn't even call it sex anyway. 688 00:53:44,763 --> 00:53:45,680 Okay. 689 00:53:46,556 --> 00:53:48,141 Okay. Uh... 690 00:53:49,643 --> 00:53:50,727 Hey. 691 00:54:00,403 --> 00:54:01,780 I couldn't tell him. 692 00:54:05,158 --> 00:54:06,201 That's okay. 693 00:54:08,703 --> 00:54:09,788 No, it's not. 694 00:54:10,372 --> 00:54:12,415 You can't hide this from him. He loves you. 695 00:54:16,670 --> 00:54:18,964 For someone with so much relationship advice, 696 00:54:19,130 --> 00:54:20,382 you seem awfully alone. 697 00:54:31,893 --> 00:54:33,186 Just act natural. 698 00:54:33,937 --> 00:54:36,273 When he's not looking, we'll make a run for it. 699 00:54:37,065 --> 00:54:38,024 Okay? 700 00:54:40,235 --> 00:54:43,530 - [Anna laughing] - [Oliver speaks indistinctly] 701 00:54:48,201 --> 00:54:50,203 [phone ringing] 702 00:54:55,166 --> 00:54:56,501 Don't, don't, don't. 703 00:54:59,087 --> 00:55:00,213 It's my dad. 704 00:55:07,762 --> 00:55:09,764 - He's that bad? - [ringing stops] 705 00:55:17,355 --> 00:55:18,690 I'll be my dad, you be me. 706 00:55:22,610 --> 00:55:23,611 Okay. 707 00:55:29,534 --> 00:55:30,910 [in deep voice] Annie? 708 00:55:31,077 --> 00:55:34,122 - Oui? - C'est toi, chérie? 709 00:55:34,289 --> 00:55:35,290 Oui, Papa. 710 00:55:39,502 --> 00:55:40,837 You never call me back. 711 00:55:42,464 --> 00:55:45,383 I'm busy. I'm shooting all the time. 712 00:55:47,969 --> 00:55:50,638 You know, I can't stop thinking about... 713 00:55:51,681 --> 00:55:52,849 You know, about it. 714 00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:54,642 Doing it. 715 00:55:56,144 --> 00:55:57,145 Doing what? 716 00:55:58,730 --> 00:55:59,939 Killing myself. 717 00:56:02,067 --> 00:56:04,569 You are the only one I can tell that to. 718 00:56:12,369 --> 00:56:14,371 You should tell Mom about that, not me. 719 00:56:17,165 --> 00:56:18,583 You are my girl. 720 00:56:27,842 --> 00:56:29,260 Now I'll have to kill you. 721 00:56:32,305 --> 00:56:34,140 Just as it was going so well. 722 00:56:34,307 --> 00:56:36,476 I know. I'm sorry. 723 00:56:43,024 --> 00:56:45,402 [Oliver grunts] Really? 724 00:56:47,779 --> 00:56:50,031 [mimics gunshots] 725 00:57:01,835 --> 00:57:02,961 Hey, Anna. 726 00:57:04,045 --> 00:57:05,380 Hey, Oliver. 727 00:57:05,547 --> 00:57:07,173 How do you feel about vandalism? 728 00:57:11,678 --> 00:57:12,804 I don't know. 729 00:57:13,888 --> 00:57:15,515 Pretty okay. 730 00:57:15,515 --> 00:57:19,853 ♪ [circus-like] 731 00:57:19,853 --> 00:57:24,065 - [Anna speaks indistinctly] - [Elliot] It's the place with the green... 732 00:57:24,232 --> 00:57:25,400 Oliver. 733 00:57:26,526 --> 00:57:29,320 Don't write any of that serious stuff. Okay? Do something funny. 734 00:57:29,487 --> 00:57:31,906 - Girls like funny. Okay? - Okay. 735 00:57:38,163 --> 00:57:39,998 You know what? Here, give me Arthur. 736 00:57:40,165 --> 00:57:42,917 We'll just stay here and get arrested. That's cool. 737 00:57:43,084 --> 00:57:44,461 [Anna grunts] 738 00:57:44,627 --> 00:57:46,337 - [Oliver] Good? - [Anna] Mm. [chuckles] 739 00:57:46,504 --> 00:57:48,465 - [Elliot] You okay? - [Oliver] Yeah, yeah, yeah. 740 00:57:53,470 --> 00:57:54,262 You okay? 741 00:57:54,262 --> 00:57:56,806 Yeah. I'm gonna stay here with my new friend. 742 00:57:56,973 --> 00:57:57,724 [Oliver] Okay. 743 00:57:57,891 --> 00:58:00,560 ♪ [music continues] 744 00:58:08,985 --> 00:58:10,069 Anna? 745 00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:16,451 C'est beau ici. 746 00:58:16,618 --> 00:58:17,577 [Oliver laughs] 747 00:58:19,454 --> 00:58:21,247 ♪ [music fades out] 748 00:58:21,414 --> 00:58:24,292 - I'm trying to impress you. - [gasps] Really? 749 00:58:29,756 --> 00:58:30,798 It's working. 750 00:58:45,605 --> 00:58:46,898 [Oliver] Arthur, Arthur. 751 00:58:47,857 --> 00:58:51,778 No, no, no. I'm sorry. 752 00:58:51,778 --> 00:58:52,779 Oh. No problem, no problem. 753 00:58:52,779 --> 00:58:53,988 What's with this card? 754 00:58:56,241 --> 00:58:58,618 - Uh... Do you mind? - No. 755 00:58:59,494 --> 00:59:00,537 [lock blips] 756 00:59:02,247 --> 00:59:03,581 - Thank you. - All right. 757 00:59:29,399 --> 00:59:30,775 He looked like your dad. 758 00:59:32,652 --> 00:59:33,653 Yeah. 759 00:59:41,869 --> 00:59:43,413 [exhales deeply] 760 00:59:46,207 --> 00:59:49,919 Somewhere along the line, he stopped admitting to himself that he was sick. 761 00:59:51,462 --> 00:59:54,382 ♪ [somber] 762 01:00:03,308 --> 01:00:07,145 Oliver, this is Blake. He's a wonderful man. 763 01:00:07,312 --> 01:00:10,481 Look. I finally got a tattoo. [chuckles] 764 01:00:10,648 --> 01:00:12,400 Registration purposes, of course. 765 01:00:14,068 --> 01:00:15,320 Good for him. 766 01:00:16,362 --> 01:00:17,280 ♪ [classical] 767 01:00:17,447 --> 01:00:19,282 [Oliver] We did a lot of shopping. 768 01:00:20,158 --> 01:00:21,367 Bought all these books. 769 01:00:21,534 --> 01:00:22,619 [cashier] Hello, Hal. 770 01:00:22,785 --> 01:00:23,911 [Hal] Hello. 771 01:00:24,078 --> 01:00:25,622 [Oliver] New clothes. 772 01:00:27,874 --> 01:00:29,834 He was obsessed with Staples. 773 01:00:30,001 --> 01:00:32,003 Bought a lot of plants. 774 01:00:34,881 --> 01:00:36,049 A lot of parties. 775 01:00:36,215 --> 01:00:37,800 ♪ [mellow jazz piano] 776 01:00:37,967 --> 01:00:40,637 [Hal chuckles] Well, glad you could make it. 777 01:00:40,803 --> 01:00:42,430 I thought I was cooking dinner. 778 01:00:42,597 --> 01:00:46,392 It's movie night, you idiot. [chuckles] 779 01:00:47,226 --> 01:00:48,978 [man] Hal, you look wonderful. 780 01:00:49,145 --> 01:00:51,439 Oh, I'm turning the corner on this thing. 781 01:00:52,190 --> 01:00:54,150 - [man] Hi, Oliver. - Hey. 782 01:00:54,317 --> 01:00:58,154 [Oliver] These political letter-writing parties. 783 01:00:58,321 --> 01:01:01,824 There was an out gay congressman he was supporting. 784 01:01:02,408 --> 01:01:04,035 ♪ [classical] 785 01:01:04,202 --> 01:01:06,871 He hired a secretary he would dictate to. 786 01:01:07,038 --> 01:01:09,123 And one May morning... 787 01:01:09,290 --> 01:01:11,751 [Oliver] He started telling everyone he was getting better. 788 01:01:11,918 --> 01:01:14,420 Why are you telling them you're turning the corner? 789 01:01:15,296 --> 01:01:16,381 Well... 790 01:01:16,547 --> 01:01:18,591 You have stage four cancer. 791 01:01:20,635 --> 01:01:22,345 It's not as bad as it sounds. 792 01:01:23,262 --> 01:01:24,222 Pop... 793 01:01:25,348 --> 01:01:27,058 there is no stage five. 794 01:01:27,642 --> 01:01:30,937 [scoffs] That's not what it means. 795 01:01:31,104 --> 01:01:32,605 Well, then what does it mean? 796 01:01:32,772 --> 01:01:36,567 It just means that it's been through three other stages. 797 01:01:48,162 --> 01:01:49,372 What movie are we watching? 798 01:01:49,539 --> 01:01:52,166 The Times of Harvey Milk, the first openly gay politician. 799 01:01:52,333 --> 01:01:54,502 - Yeah, I know who Harvey Milk is. - Good, good. 800 01:01:54,669 --> 01:01:57,380 [Milk on TV] What really counts, does a person care? 801 01:01:57,547 --> 01:02:00,049 Does a person care about his city or her city? 802 01:02:00,216 --> 01:02:02,051 Is a person sensitive to the needs...? 803 01:02:02,218 --> 01:02:03,761 Wrote an essay about religion. 804 01:02:04,470 --> 01:02:10,351 "Eventually, Jesus grew old, and he could no longer walk far, 805 01:02:10,518 --> 01:02:13,396 and he could no longer preach in a loud voice. 806 01:02:13,563 --> 01:02:16,941 One day he announced to his apostles that he was departing. 807 01:02:17,108 --> 01:02:18,860 The three disciples prayed with him, 808 01:02:19,026 --> 01:02:21,112 gave him water, bathed and fed him. 809 01:02:21,946 --> 01:02:24,991 After gasping for breath for several days, 810 01:02:25,158 --> 01:02:27,201 one morning, just as dawn came, 811 01:02:28,369 --> 01:02:30,079 Jesus passed away." 812 01:02:31,581 --> 01:02:34,751 - Hal... - You rewrote Jesus's death? 813 01:02:34,917 --> 01:02:37,170 Oh, well, it was far too violent. 814 01:02:37,837 --> 01:02:39,297 We need new stories. 815 01:02:39,464 --> 01:02:41,382 [all laughing] 816 01:02:41,549 --> 01:02:44,051 [Oliver] For the first time, I saw him really in love. 817 01:02:45,052 --> 01:02:46,304 [Anna] He sounds amazing. 818 01:02:47,096 --> 01:02:49,098 But that must have been crazy for you. 819 01:03:09,452 --> 01:03:11,454 ♪ [soft, solemn piano] 820 01:03:45,112 --> 01:03:46,030 Anna? 821 01:04:02,129 --> 01:04:05,800 [Anna] I couldn't sleep, and I wanted to walk around. 822 01:04:09,971 --> 01:04:11,514 You've lost so much. 823 01:04:13,516 --> 01:04:15,226 What if I can't make up for that? 824 01:04:19,188 --> 01:04:21,065 If this is too much, then... 825 01:04:23,192 --> 01:04:24,569 we should just stop. 826 01:04:30,950 --> 01:04:32,076 [Oliver sighs] 827 01:04:34,745 --> 01:04:36,163 [Anna tearfully] Wait, wait. 828 01:04:37,164 --> 01:04:38,833 Wait, wait, wait. 829 01:04:41,335 --> 01:04:42,587 I don't wanna stop. 830 01:04:47,008 --> 01:04:49,844 Oh! [laughing] 831 01:04:54,056 --> 01:04:56,267 - Ready? - [all] Yeah! 832 01:04:57,977 --> 01:05:00,021 [all cheering] 833 01:05:01,606 --> 01:05:02,815 - Again! [Andy] Again? 834 01:05:02,982 --> 01:05:04,650 - Again! [all] Again! 835 01:05:04,817 --> 01:05:07,612 [all cheering and laughing] 836 01:05:08,279 --> 01:05:10,448 Fuck! 837 01:05:10,448 --> 01:05:12,909 [all] Fuck! 838 01:05:12,909 --> 01:05:16,537 - [man] Fuck! - [Hal laughing] 839 01:05:16,704 --> 01:05:18,122 Fuck! 840 01:05:18,873 --> 01:05:20,791 Fuck! 841 01:05:20,958 --> 01:05:22,793 - Fuck! - Fuck! 842 01:05:22,960 --> 01:05:25,212 [all calling] Arthur! Arthur! 843 01:05:25,379 --> 01:05:27,340 - [man whistles] - [Andy] Come on, doggy, doggy. 844 01:05:27,506 --> 01:05:29,133 - Arthur! - I'm gonna go this way. 845 01:05:29,300 --> 01:05:30,343 I'm gonna go farther out. 846 01:05:35,056 --> 01:05:37,058 Whoo! 847 01:05:37,058 --> 01:05:39,727 Ah! You're awake. 848 01:05:39,727 --> 01:05:42,229 Arthur says you have to get up. 849 01:05:43,189 --> 01:05:45,191 He says it's his day off. 850 01:05:45,358 --> 01:05:47,109 - He speaks to you too. - Yeah. 851 01:05:48,569 --> 01:05:51,781 - He says now. Now. Now. - Your English is not so perfect. 852 01:05:51,948 --> 01:05:53,449 And he said ten minutes. 853 01:05:54,909 --> 01:05:58,788 - [upbeat carnival music playing] - [Anna exclaiming in French] 854 01:05:58,955 --> 01:06:00,331 [screams] 855 01:06:01,791 --> 01:06:07,672 [Anna speaking in French] 856 01:06:07,672 --> 01:06:08,589 [yelps, then laughs] 857 01:06:08,589 --> 01:06:09,507 You okay? 858 01:06:09,674 --> 01:06:10,967 [both laugh] 859 01:06:11,133 --> 01:06:12,051 You did really well. 860 01:06:12,218 --> 01:06:14,387 [Elliot] I can't believe that was your first time. 861 01:06:14,553 --> 01:06:17,056 You watching all the humans going around and around? 862 01:06:17,223 --> 01:06:20,726 Excuse me. There's no dogs allowed. You need to remove him from the premises. 863 01:06:20,893 --> 01:06:22,895 If I leave him on his own, he loses all control. 864 01:06:23,062 --> 01:06:25,523 - I'm sorry. There's no dogs allowed. - Yeah, but... 865 01:06:25,690 --> 01:06:28,484 If I leave him in the car, he cries. I can't leave him in the car. 866 01:06:28,651 --> 01:06:30,861 - Sorry. He needs to be removed. - [exclaims in French] 867 01:06:31,028 --> 01:06:33,197 I don't know what she's saying, and I don't like it. 868 01:06:33,364 --> 01:06:35,616 - You need to remove the dog. - She's talking in French. 869 01:06:35,783 --> 01:06:37,618 She's saying, "It's okay, it's a small dog." 870 01:06:37,785 --> 01:06:40,371 - You're gonna call the authorities? - [both] Steal the skates. 871 01:06:40,538 --> 01:06:43,916 - [Shauna] Steal the skates. - [speaking in French] 872 01:06:47,336 --> 01:06:48,546 - Okay? - Okay. 873 01:06:48,713 --> 01:06:52,675 Jd I have been a rover Since I was a child... 874 01:06:52,842 --> 01:06:54,427 [both whoop] 875 01:06:54,593 --> 01:06:58,472 ♪ No one to love or care for me ♪ 876 01:07:00,307 --> 01:07:05,604 Jd Knocked around all over Kind of grew up wild... ♪ 877 01:07:06,147 --> 01:07:08,149 - Come on, Arthur. Okay. - Faster, faster. 878 01:07:08,733 --> 01:07:11,485 - Sorry. Excuse me. - Hi. [yelps] 879 01:07:11,652 --> 01:07:14,989 - [Anna exclaims, then whoops] - [laughs] 880 01:07:15,948 --> 01:07:20,828 Whoa. Oh, oh, oh. I can't do it. [laughs] 881 01:07:20,995 --> 01:07:22,913 [phone ringing] 882 01:07:27,168 --> 01:07:29,086 He doesn't always call this much. 883 01:07:30,087 --> 01:07:31,338 Sometimes he's fine. 884 01:07:31,505 --> 01:07:32,715 Yeah, well... 885 01:07:34,717 --> 01:07:36,135 He shouldn't do this to you. 886 01:07:38,012 --> 01:07:40,264 [ringing continues from other room] 887 01:07:46,103 --> 01:07:47,063 [ringing stops] 888 01:07:47,229 --> 01:07:49,774 Even if we don't answer the phone, he's still here. 889 01:07:51,692 --> 01:07:53,402 I run somewhere new and... 890 01:08:02,495 --> 01:08:02,495 Yeah. 891 01:08:02,495 --> 01:08:04,872 You're leaving here soon. 892 01:08:04,872 --> 01:08:08,375 I think you should come to my house. Move in with me. 893 01:08:25,559 --> 01:08:28,687 Would you want a strange girl like me? 894 01:08:30,022 --> 01:08:31,315 Yeah, a lot. 895 01:08:36,070 --> 01:08:37,154 Do you cook? 896 01:08:40,658 --> 01:08:42,493 - Yes. - [scoffs] 897 01:08:57,258 --> 01:08:58,717 I would love that. 898 01:09:02,471 --> 01:09:04,140 I'm really gonna have to kill you now. 899 01:09:04,306 --> 01:09:08,811 - Mmm. Why? - Because I'm falling in love with you. 900 01:09:08,978 --> 01:09:12,064 [Oliver] Anna and ] are in a relationship in 2003. 901 01:09:12,231 --> 01:09:14,108 This is what the sun looks like, 902 01:09:14,275 --> 01:09:15,568 and the stars. 903 01:09:15,734 --> 01:09:17,903 This is what it looks like when we eat. 904 01:09:18,070 --> 01:09:20,865 When we tell each other the stories in our heads. 905 01:09:21,031 --> 01:09:23,075 I was born in 1965. 906 01:09:23,242 --> 01:09:25,828 Anna was born in 1971. 907 01:09:25,995 --> 01:09:27,830 This is what the sun looked like. 908 01:09:27,997 --> 01:09:29,373 Her pets. 909 01:09:29,540 --> 01:09:32,251 Her parents. She left home when she was 16. 910 01:09:32,418 --> 01:09:37,381 She lived here and here and here and here. 911 01:09:37,548 --> 01:09:41,093 She had three serious relationships. She left all of them. 912 01:09:41,260 --> 01:09:44,805 I had four serious relationships. I left them too. 913 01:09:44,972 --> 01:09:46,765 Or let them fall apart. 914 01:09:46,932 --> 01:09:48,517 We didn't go to this war. 915 01:09:49,143 --> 01:09:51,228 We didn't have to hide to have sex. 916 01:09:52,062 --> 01:09:54,273 Our good fortune allowed us to feel a sadness 917 01:09:54,440 --> 01:09:56,066 that our parents didn't have time for 918 01:09:57,276 --> 01:09:59,445 and a happiness that I never saw with them. 919 01:10:00,404 --> 01:10:03,407 We didn't know how we learned the stories in our heads, 920 01:10:03,574 --> 01:10:05,784 but sometimes they stop running 921 01:10:05,951 --> 01:10:08,537 and I can really see Anna's eyes in 2003. 922 01:10:08,704 --> 01:10:09,914 Her ears. 923 01:10:10,748 --> 01:10:11,999 Her feet. 924 01:10:12,166 --> 01:10:16,629 This is what it looks like when she says "I love you" in 2003. 925 01:10:17,630 --> 01:10:19,757 This is what it looks like when she cries. 926 01:10:20,382 --> 01:10:23,636 When she tells me there's always a new empty room waiting for her. 927 01:10:24,720 --> 01:10:26,722 They used to make her feel free. 928 01:10:27,514 --> 01:10:29,725 Now they make her feel the opposite of free. 929 01:11:04,510 --> 01:11:05,970 - Last one. - Oh, Lord. 930 01:11:06,136 --> 01:11:07,054 I know. 931 01:11:14,228 --> 01:11:15,187 There. 932 01:11:16,730 --> 01:11:18,440 [Hal sighs] 933 01:11:18,607 --> 01:11:21,902 This is for you. Here. Now, that means Gay Pride. 934 01:11:22,069 --> 01:11:24,363 - Yeah, everyone knows that. - No, they don't. 935 01:11:24,530 --> 01:11:28,075 - Yeah. Everyone knows about that. - No, of course not. Don't be silly. 936 01:11:28,242 --> 01:11:30,828 Pop, pretty much everyone knows that that means Gay Pride. 937 01:11:30,995 --> 01:11:33,080 - Oh, do they really? - Yeah. 938 01:11:39,712 --> 01:11:40,879 Did you know? 939 01:11:42,715 --> 01:11:43,841 About me? 940 01:11:47,720 --> 01:11:48,762 No. 941 01:11:50,681 --> 01:11:52,558 I just thought you and Mom weren't in love. 942 01:11:52,725 --> 01:11:54,727 Oh, we loved each other. 943 01:11:55,728 --> 01:11:58,981 - But you were gay the whole time. - Well, I learned how not to be. 944 01:11:59,148 --> 01:12:01,358 - For 44 years? - Yeah. 945 01:12:03,110 --> 01:12:04,778 I knew I was gay, though. 946 01:12:04,945 --> 01:12:08,324 I mean, at parties I'd be staring at the husbands and not the wives. 947 01:12:11,827 --> 01:12:13,412 What about sex? 948 01:12:14,079 --> 01:12:16,498 Well, she didn't think I was the greatest lover. 949 01:12:18,751 --> 01:12:20,085 But we made do. 950 01:12:21,337 --> 01:12:24,131 Mm. Look, I liked my life. 951 01:12:25,049 --> 01:12:27,009 The museum, our house. 952 01:12:28,093 --> 01:12:30,179 - That's what I wanted. - And Mom. 953 01:12:30,971 --> 01:12:33,223 - You wanted Mom too, right? - Yes! 954 01:12:33,390 --> 01:12:34,767 Stop that. 955 01:12:41,190 --> 01:12:43,150 She proposed to me, you know. 956 01:12:46,278 --> 01:12:47,488 I said... 957 01:12:49,156 --> 01:12:52,493 "Look, I love you and we're great buddies, but you know what I am." 958 01:12:52,659 --> 01:12:54,536 And then she says... 959 01:12:58,207 --> 01:12:59,708 "That doesn't matter. 960 01:13:02,169 --> 01:13:07,549 I'll fix that." 961 01:13:07,549 --> 01:13:08,717 I thought, 962 01:13:09,927 --> 01:13:11,261 "Oh, God. 963 01:13:14,807 --> 01:13:16,350 I'll try anything." 964 01:13:22,147 --> 01:13:23,148 [Oliver] Sex. 965 01:13:23,732 --> 01:13:24,983 Life. 966 01:13:25,150 --> 01:13:26,276 Healing. 967 01:13:26,443 --> 01:13:27,611 Sunlight. 968 01:13:27,778 --> 01:13:28,862 Nature. 969 01:13:29,029 --> 01:13:29,905 Magic. 970 01:13:30,072 --> 01:13:31,323 Serenity. 971 01:13:31,323 --> 01:13:34,118 Spirit. 972 01:13:34,118 --> 01:13:38,539 The first Gay Pride flag was made by a man named Gilbert Baker in 1978. 973 01:13:38,705 --> 01:13:40,416 He gave a meaning to each color. 974 01:13:40,582 --> 01:13:42,167 This man was president. 975 01:13:42,334 --> 01:13:43,460 This was invented. 976 01:13:44,086 --> 01:13:46,463 This is what movies looked like. Pets. 977 01:13:47,798 --> 01:13:51,552 On November 27th, 1978, Harvey Milk was shot and killed. 978 01:13:53,053 --> 01:13:56,473 One week after, my father opened his annual museum Christmas exhibit. 979 01:13:57,266 --> 01:13:59,768 He collected stuffed animals from people in the community 980 01:13:59,935 --> 01:14:01,270 and he put them on display. 981 01:14:01,895 --> 01:14:04,273 My father printed a quote from The Velveteen Rabbit 982 01:14:04,440 --> 01:14:05,941 in large type on the wall. 983 01:14:06,984 --> 01:14:09,778 The stuffed rabbit asked, "What is real?" 984 01:14:10,946 --> 01:14:13,282 And the rabbit asked, "Does it hurt?" 985 01:14:14,575 --> 01:14:16,869 And the horse said, "Sometimes." 986 01:14:17,494 --> 01:14:19,079 "Does it happen all at once?" 987 01:14:19,872 --> 01:14:21,373 "It takes a long time. 988 01:14:22,082 --> 01:14:25,794 Generally, by the time you are real, most of your hair has been loved off, 989 01:14:25,961 --> 01:14:28,672 your eyes dropped out, and you get loose in the joints. 990 01:14:29,465 --> 01:14:31,550 But these things don't matter at all, 991 01:14:31,717 --> 01:14:33,051 because you are real. 992 01:14:33,635 --> 01:14:36,472 You can't be ugly except to people who don't understand." 993 01:14:36,638 --> 01:14:38,682 [joyful opera music playing] 994 01:14:43,395 --> 01:14:44,771 Andy's moving in. 995 01:14:45,522 --> 01:14:46,482 [Oliver] Yeah? 996 01:14:47,441 --> 01:14:48,901 Is that a good idea? 997 01:14:51,528 --> 01:14:54,239 Just be happy about it. Huh? 998 01:15:12,925 --> 01:15:13,926 Come on. 999 01:15:14,092 --> 01:15:16,887 [Oliver] This is the idea, is that it's the history of sadness. 1000 01:15:17,054 --> 01:15:20,140 Here could be your... This could be your... 1001 01:15:20,933 --> 01:15:23,810 You know, you're gonna need a big CD box. 1002 01:15:26,104 --> 01:15:29,316 Four billion years ago, Earth begins. 1003 01:15:29,483 --> 01:15:32,569 And the idea is that sadness has not yet been created, but... 1004 01:15:33,737 --> 01:15:35,030 I'm sorry. 1005 01:15:36,532 --> 01:15:37,658 I'm sorry too. 1006 01:15:40,369 --> 01:15:41,620 Well, that went well. 1007 01:15:54,049 --> 01:15:55,384 Come on, Arthur. 1008 01:16:04,351 --> 01:16:05,686 This is the living room. 1009 01:16:12,484 --> 01:16:13,860 The dining room. 1010 01:16:14,027 --> 01:16:16,029 [Anna laughs] 1011 01:16:16,196 --> 01:16:19,616 My-- I have some boxes, there are my parents. 1012 01:16:19,783 --> 01:16:22,494 My mom. Hal, Georgia, meet Anna. 1013 01:16:22,661 --> 01:16:24,538 Anna, Hal, Georgia. 1014 01:16:25,956 --> 01:16:26,790 Hi. 1015 01:16:29,001 --> 01:16:30,794 - These are the stairs. - Oh, yeah? 1016 01:16:30,961 --> 01:16:33,005 - [Oliver] They go up. - [chuckles] 1017 01:16:33,171 --> 01:16:34,381 [, uh... 1018 01:16:36,341 --> 01:16:37,759 I emptied these for you. 1019 01:16:45,976 --> 01:16:46,977 Uh... 1020 01:16:49,062 --> 01:16:50,480 I'll get your case. 1021 01:16:57,779 --> 01:16:59,781 [crying] 1022 01:17:05,037 --> 01:17:08,165 - [footsteps approaching] - [curses softly in French] 1023 01:17:20,052 --> 01:17:21,178 Are you okay? 1024 01:18:13,897 --> 01:18:19,069 I couldn't sleep, and I didn't want to bother you. 1025 01:18:19,069 --> 01:18:22,531 I was... 1026 01:18:22,531 --> 01:18:23,990 I was nervous and... 1027 01:18:26,034 --> 01:18:27,369 And excited. 1028 01:18:30,080 --> 01:18:31,748 I kept thinking, maybe... 1029 01:18:32,749 --> 01:18:34,376 I'm not so lost. 1030 01:18:39,923 --> 01:18:41,633 Why were you crying yesterday? 1031 01:18:50,517 --> 01:18:52,978 ♪ [soft, solemn piano] 1032 01:19:01,069 --> 01:19:03,405 ♪ [music continues] 1033 01:19:17,043 --> 01:19:19,045 ♪ [music continues] 1034 01:19:31,767 --> 01:19:32,851 You okay? 1035 01:19:34,227 --> 01:19:35,270 Yeah. 1036 01:19:40,025 --> 01:19:42,027 ♪ [music continues] 1037 01:20:05,801 --> 01:20:07,844 ♪ [music fades out] 1038 01:20:08,011 --> 01:20:09,471 You look so unhappy. 1039 01:20:14,017 --> 01:20:15,352 Well, are you happy? 1040 01:20:16,812 --> 01:20:17,813 Here? 1041 01:20:23,944 --> 01:20:25,862 Maybe I'm not perfect at it. 1042 01:20:29,282 --> 01:20:31,117 I don't really know what I'm doing. 1043 01:20:33,912 --> 01:20:35,247 But I wanna be here. 1044 01:20:43,588 --> 01:20:45,590 ♪ [soft, solemn piano] 1045 01:20:53,723 --> 01:20:55,725 [inaudible dialogue] 1046 01:21:14,244 --> 01:21:15,328 I don't know, Anna. 1047 01:21:16,955 --> 01:21:19,624 I don't think this is what I'm supposed to feel like. 1048 01:21:28,133 --> 01:21:29,134 Okay. 1049 01:21:32,178 --> 01:21:33,889 I will go back to New York, then. 1050 01:21:38,643 --> 01:21:40,645 ♪ [music continues] 1051 01:21:57,537 --> 01:21:59,873 ♪ [music continues] 1052 01:22:00,040 --> 01:22:04,336 [doctor] Hal, you don't need to come in for any more treatments. 1053 01:22:04,502 --> 01:22:06,296 Did I do something wrong? 1054 01:22:07,213 --> 01:22:08,882 [doctor] It's best you stay home. 1055 01:22:10,091 --> 01:22:12,093 Hospice can help you more now. 1056 01:22:13,428 --> 01:22:15,472 Any more treatments would just... 1057 01:22:17,223 --> 01:22:18,475 cause more pain. 1058 01:22:19,976 --> 01:22:21,478 Yeah, I understand. 1059 01:22:23,063 --> 01:22:25,273 [doctor] I'm sorry. I wish we could do more. 1060 01:22:26,066 --> 01:22:30,403 No, no, you've-- You've done an excellent job, Dr. Long. 1061 01:22:32,572 --> 01:22:33,990 And thank you... 1062 01:22:35,367 --> 01:22:38,703 for, um, coming to the party. 1063 01:22:38,870 --> 01:22:42,207 ♪ [pensive horn] 1064 01:22:44,668 --> 01:22:46,670 [inaudible dialogue] 1065 01:23:05,689 --> 01:23:08,692 [Hal] You always wanted to hold my hand when you were little. 1066 01:23:09,943 --> 01:23:13,905 I couldn't, you know. I was afraid it would look funny. 1067 01:23:15,490 --> 01:23:17,909 I wanted to be close, you know, 1068 01:23:18,618 --> 01:23:22,414 and my father certainly was never close with me. 1069 01:23:25,000 --> 01:23:27,085 God, I hope I wasn't like that. 1070 01:23:28,461 --> 01:23:30,922 I can barely remember you from when I was little. 1071 01:23:32,799 --> 01:23:34,634 [Hal] I guess I was at work. 1072 01:23:34,801 --> 01:23:38,304 [woman] Look at the hand of the man in the brushwork. 1073 01:23:39,597 --> 01:23:45,311 It's as if you can feel the spirit of the artist, if he's very good, 1074 01:23:45,478 --> 01:23:47,355 and his every gesture. 1075 01:23:48,440 --> 01:23:53,737 It's like, um, a sort of structural entity in... 1076 01:23:53,903 --> 01:23:57,198 - I mean that in... - Let's go home. 1077 01:23:57,365 --> 01:23:59,784 ...the largest use of that word. 1078 01:23:59,951 --> 01:24:01,995 ♪ [soft, solemn piano] 1079 01:24:02,162 --> 01:24:05,540 [Georgia] What about your father? What will he possibly do without us? 1080 01:24:05,707 --> 01:24:07,709 [woman] Georgia, are you leaving? 1081 01:24:07,876 --> 01:24:10,170 Yes, Mary. It's an emergency. 1082 01:24:10,336 --> 01:24:12,047 Oliver's appendix has ruptured. 1083 01:24:12,881 --> 01:24:14,549 Oh, dear. 1084 01:24:15,550 --> 01:24:17,802 He's a very composed child. 1085 01:24:20,805 --> 01:24:22,098 ♪ [music continues] 1086 01:24:22,265 --> 01:24:23,975 You point, I'll drive. 1087 01:24:29,606 --> 01:24:31,983 Ah. The infamous left. 1088 01:24:36,613 --> 01:24:37,614 And? 1089 01:24:40,325 --> 01:24:43,328 Left again. Going in circles. I like it. 1090 01:25:04,390 --> 01:25:06,392 ♪ [music continues] 1091 01:25:20,698 --> 01:25:23,409 ♪ [music continues] 1092 01:25:33,753 --> 01:25:36,214 [line ringing] 1093 01:25:36,381 --> 01:25:38,591 [Anna on recording] Hey, it's me. Leave me a message. 1094 01:25:38,758 --> 01:25:40,552 - [line beeps] - Anna? 1095 01:25:43,721 --> 01:25:45,014 Where are you? 1096 01:25:56,693 --> 01:25:58,778 ♪ [music fades out] 1097 01:25:58,945 --> 01:26:00,029 - Hey. - Hey. 1098 01:26:00,822 --> 01:26:02,031 All right, here. 1099 01:26:03,533 --> 01:26:05,910 All right, Arthur, okay. 1100 01:26:07,287 --> 01:26:10,582 You're gonna look after Elliot. I'll be back in a couple of days. 1101 01:26:12,709 --> 01:26:14,335 - Good luck. - All right. 1102 01:26:14,502 --> 01:26:16,004 Okay? Thanks. 1103 01:26:18,882 --> 01:26:20,633 [Arthur barking] 1104 01:26:21,676 --> 01:26:23,678 [Arthur whining] 1105 01:26:25,597 --> 01:26:28,516 - [Arthur whining and howling] - [sighs] 1106 01:26:50,121 --> 01:26:51,664 [crying] He remembers me. 1107 01:27:26,407 --> 01:27:28,409 [engine starts] 1108 01:27:32,789 --> 01:27:35,625 ♪ [soft, solemn piano] 1109 01:27:42,507 --> 01:27:44,509 ♪ [music continues] 1110 01:28:19,711 --> 01:28:21,754 ♪ [music fades out] 1111 01:28:21,921 --> 01:28:24,007 [line ringing] 1112 01:28:27,552 --> 01:28:28,761 [Anna over phone] Hey. 1113 01:28:29,429 --> 01:28:30,471 Hey. 1114 01:28:32,181 --> 01:28:34,684 Look, I'm so sorry, 1115 01:28:34,851 --> 01:28:37,520 but I'm at your front door. I'm in New York. 1116 01:28:43,776 --> 01:28:45,528 [chuckles] 1117 01:28:46,904 --> 01:28:47,947 Oh. 1118 01:28:49,198 --> 01:28:50,908 I am in Los Angeles. 1119 01:28:56,581 --> 01:28:58,249 You're--? You're in LA? 1120 01:28:58,416 --> 01:29:00,543 You said you were coming here. 1121 01:29:01,336 --> 01:29:04,505 Yeah. But I didn't leave. 1122 01:29:05,882 --> 01:29:07,842 Fuck. I'm in your building. 1123 01:29:14,515 --> 01:29:18,519 Okay. See the window near to the radiator? 1124 01:29:19,437 --> 01:29:21,939 There is a hide-a-key behind it. 1125 01:29:34,118 --> 01:29:36,037 Okay, I'm inside. 1126 01:29:40,583 --> 01:29:42,251 Wow, there's like nothing here. 1127 01:29:43,711 --> 01:29:44,837 No. 1128 01:29:47,048 --> 01:29:50,426 This is my kitchen. It's where I eat. 1129 01:29:52,345 --> 01:29:53,930 This is my bathroom. 1130 01:29:55,223 --> 01:29:56,432 It's very fancy. 1131 01:29:58,059 --> 01:30:02,480 Outside my window is my neighbor's roof. 1132 01:30:05,483 --> 01:30:07,568 The room at the end is my bedroom. 1133 01:30:10,154 --> 01:30:11,739 That's my closet. 1134 01:30:13,366 --> 01:30:15,243 Those are my clothes. 1135 01:30:16,035 --> 01:30:17,328 My pictures. 1136 01:30:25,086 --> 01:30:26,712 Why do you leave everyone? 1137 01:30:28,881 --> 01:30:30,341 Why did you let me go? 1138 01:30:35,054 --> 01:30:37,598 ♪ [soft, solemn horn] 1139 01:30:37,765 --> 01:30:39,267 [Oliver] Maybe because I... 1140 01:30:40,017 --> 01:30:42,061 I don't really believe that it's gonna work. 1141 01:30:42,228 --> 01:30:44,856 And then I make sure that it doesn't work. 1142 01:30:50,069 --> 01:30:52,029 Isn't Juan's hair wonderful? 1143 01:30:53,823 --> 01:30:55,324 - Thanks. - Mm. 1144 01:30:55,491 --> 01:30:58,995 - I use this great mousse. - Oh, it's terrific. 1145 01:30:59,162 --> 01:31:01,622 - Do you wanna try some? - Oh... 1146 01:31:01,789 --> 01:31:04,500 - Just a little bit? - I don't think so. 1147 01:31:04,667 --> 01:31:07,837 Come on. Just try a little bit. It'll be fun. 1148 01:31:08,004 --> 01:31:09,422 - Yeah? - Yeah. 1149 01:31:10,631 --> 01:31:11,924 How do you do it? 1150 01:31:12,091 --> 01:31:13,759 Okay. I'm gonna show you how. 1151 01:31:39,577 --> 01:31:41,078 - There. - Is that it? 1152 01:31:41,245 --> 01:31:42,663 - [Juan] Yeah. - How do I look? 1153 01:31:43,289 --> 01:31:44,290 [Juan] Great. 1154 01:31:50,838 --> 01:31:52,006 You look great. 1155 01:31:56,135 --> 01:31:58,137 ♪ [music continues] 1156 01:32:28,334 --> 01:32:29,544 Oliver. 1157 01:32:30,836 --> 01:32:32,046 He's gone. 1158 01:32:46,477 --> 01:32:48,479 ♪ [music fades out] 1159 01:32:49,897 --> 01:32:51,899 [sobbing] 1160 01:33:01,909 --> 01:33:04,453 [Oliver] Once you make the call, you have less than an hour 1161 01:33:04,620 --> 01:33:07,665 before two men come and place the body into a bag. 1162 01:33:08,583 --> 01:33:12,712 They charge $1485 for a cremation 1163 01:33:12,878 --> 01:33:15,006 and deliver the remains in a small metal container 1164 01:33:15,172 --> 01:33:16,882 the size of a jar of peanut butter. 1165 01:33:18,551 --> 01:33:21,554 You will need to get a death certificate. You will need to make copies 1166 01:33:21,721 --> 01:33:24,015 and send them to cancel every credit card, 1167 01:33:24,181 --> 01:33:28,769 phone account, utility, gym membership, every insurance policy, 1168 01:33:28,936 --> 01:33:31,272 mortgage, to settle their taxes. 1169 01:33:32,064 --> 01:33:34,817 You will have all their mail forwarded to your address. 1170 01:33:35,735 --> 01:33:37,695 You will write their obituary. 1171 01:33:37,862 --> 01:33:40,948 You'll run it with a photo in the paper for $2 a word. 1172 01:33:41,115 --> 01:33:42,742 You'll wonder if it's right. 1173 01:33:44,285 --> 01:33:46,370 You'll throw a lot of their stuff away. 1174 01:33:46,537 --> 01:33:48,581 You'll bring a lot of their stuff to your house. 1175 01:33:48,748 --> 01:33:51,500 This is the photo my mother kept in her bedroom. 1176 01:33:52,418 --> 01:33:55,630 When I was a kid, I thought that was my arm giving her daisies. 1177 01:33:56,756 --> 01:34:00,259 Now I make a new mistake and I think it's her arm giving me the daisies, 1178 01:34:00,426 --> 01:34:04,221 saying, "Here. Here is simple and happy. 1179 01:34:04,388 --> 01:34:06,015 That's what I meant to give you." 1180 01:34:15,941 --> 01:34:15,941 Arthur. 1181 01:34:15,941 --> 01:34:17,860 - Hey. - Hey. 1182 01:34:17,860 --> 01:34:21,405 - Hey. Oh. Hey. - [chuckles] 1183 01:34:23,157 --> 01:34:24,158 Thank you. 1184 01:34:28,496 --> 01:34:29,705 Thanks. 1185 01:34:30,956 --> 01:34:31,957 Sure. 1186 01:34:33,668 --> 01:34:34,877 Come on. 1187 01:34:37,338 --> 01:34:38,881 It's because I'm gay. 1188 01:34:39,799 --> 01:34:40,800 Isn't it? 1189 01:34:41,967 --> 01:34:43,010 What? 1190 01:34:43,761 --> 01:34:46,180 You never called or came to see me. 1191 01:34:49,475 --> 01:34:50,685 No. 1192 01:34:53,896 --> 01:34:56,232 No, it's because my father loved you so much. 1193 01:35:05,950 --> 01:35:07,118 [sighs] 1194 01:35:24,009 --> 01:35:25,177 Arthur. 1195 01:35:27,304 --> 01:35:30,558 Hey. Hey. 1196 01:35:30,558 --> 01:35:38,023 Hey, how have you been? How have you been? 1197 01:35:38,023 --> 01:35:39,567 - Hey. - Hi. 1198 01:35:43,654 --> 01:35:44,822 [laughs] 1199 01:35:48,117 --> 01:35:49,368 Come in, come in. 1200 01:35:55,040 --> 01:35:57,126 - The living room. - Ah. 1201 01:35:57,835 --> 01:35:59,128 Dining room. 1202 01:36:08,262 --> 01:36:10,139 [gasps] 1203 01:36:10,139 --> 01:36:13,893 - Crazy picture. - Yeah. 1204 01:36:13,893 --> 01:36:15,519 - Can I read it? - Sure. 1205 01:36:18,272 --> 01:36:19,774 "I'm looking for sex 1206 01:36:20,441 --> 01:36:22,610 with the hope it turns into 1207 01:36:23,861 --> 01:36:25,446 friendship or a relationship. 1208 01:36:25,613 --> 01:36:27,323 But I don't insist on monogamy. 1209 01:36:28,824 --> 01:36:32,912 I'm an old senior guy, 78, but I'm attractive and horny. 1210 01:36:33,078 --> 01:36:36,081 I'm an art historian and now retired. 1211 01:36:36,248 --> 01:36:39,585 In addition to art, I like houses, gardens, 1212 01:36:39,752 --> 01:36:42,463 parties, and walking with my Jack Russell. 1213 01:36:42,630 --> 01:36:46,008 I'm 5'11", 160 pounds. 1214 01:36:46,175 --> 01:36:50,054 I'm trim, gray hair, blue eyes, hairy cheest." 1215 01:36:50,221 --> 01:36:51,555 - Chest. - Chest? 1216 01:36:53,057 --> 01:36:55,226 "I like giving and..." And what? 1217 01:36:55,392 --> 01:36:57,228 "I like giving and getting rubdowns 1218 01:36:57,394 --> 01:36:59,939 and then going into the mutual soft stuff." 1219 01:37:03,108 --> 01:37:07,071 "I have a nice house with food, drinks, friends, and me. 1220 01:37:07,780 --> 01:37:10,491 If you are willing to try an older guy, 1221 01:37:10,658 --> 01:37:12,701 let's meet and see what happens." 1222 01:37:17,748 --> 01:37:19,208 He didn't give up. 1223 01:37:41,939 --> 01:37:43,941 ♪ [warm jazz piano] 1224 01:37:50,030 --> 01:37:51,448 What happens now? 1225 01:37:54,410 --> 01:37:55,452 I don't know. 1226 01:37:59,498 --> 01:38:00,583 How does that work? 1227 01:38:10,551 --> 01:38:12,553 ♪ [music continues] 1228 01:39:02,353 --> 01:39:03,938 ♪ [singer speaks indistinctly] 1229 01:39:04,104 --> 01:39:06,857 Jd I stood on the corner ♪ 1230 01:39:07,024 --> 01:39:09,526 ♪ My feet was dripping wet ♪ 1231 01:39:13,364 --> 01:39:15,324 ♪ Stood on the corner ♪ 1232 01:39:15,491 --> 01:39:18,035 ♪ My feet was dripping wet ♪ 1233 01:39:21,997 --> 01:39:26,543 ♪ I asked every man I met ♪ 1234 01:39:30,214 --> 01:39:35,010 ♪ Can't give me a dollar, Give me a lousy dime ♪ 1235 01:39:38,555 --> 01:39:43,644 ♪ You can't give me a dollar Give me a lousy dime ♪ 1236 01:39:47,564 --> 01:39:52,486 ♪ Just to feed that hungry man of mine ♪ 1237 01:39:55,781 --> 01:40:01,370 ♪ 1 got a husband And I got a kid man too ♪ 1238 01:40:04,164 --> 01:40:09,628 ♪ I got a husband I got a kid man too ♪ 1239 01:40:13,924 --> 01:40:18,262 ♪ My husband can't do What my kid man can do ♪ 1240 01:40:21,515 --> 01:40:26,729 ♪ I like the way He cooks my cabbage for me ♪ 1241 01:40:29,982 --> 01:40:35,279 ♪ I like the way He cooks my cabbage for me ♪ 1242 01:40:38,866 --> 01:40:43,328 ♪ Looks like he set my natural soul free ♪ 1243 01:40:43,495 --> 01:40:45,414 ♪ [music fades out] 1244 01:40:47,124 --> 01:40:49,126 ♪ [cheerful ragtime piano] 1245 01:44:06,782 --> 01:44:09,782 ♪ [song ends]